Ever done this?
Woke up, wrote in your journal, then just as you were deeply relaxing into your meditation your kids or spouse start calling for you and you yell, “I’m meditating!”
Yes, I’ve done it too. Sigh
How about this one. You meet with a friend for lunch, after having spent the morning being inspired by a Spiritual book, when suddenly you both begin gossiping about someone.
We are all humans that make mistakes, right? I’m mean, whose perfect?
Well, I think we use that excuse a bit too often these days. In fact, I’ll go as far as to ask this question,
Can we truly call ourselves Spiritual Women if we consistently engage in judging, comparing, criticising, gossiping, yelling, etc?”
Spiritual Women who choose to live elegantly make conscious choices multiple times a day and swiftly course correct when we catch ourselves out of alignment with the Divine.
Notice I said, “make conscious choices”. The first step in changing a habit is to become conscious of what we are doing that isn’t serving us and deciding that we choose a specific alternative behaviour.
How to CHOOSE to be a Spiritual Woman
When we start choosing to be a Spiritual Woman who lives elegantly it can feel like we are catching ourselves doing things out of alignment constantly! It can get tiresome constantly bringing ourselves back into alignment.
Like any new skill, there is a period of adjustment. However, the more conscious you become the more elegantly you will bring yourself back into alignment.
One day you will notice:
- Hmmm, I don’t feel good after reading this gossip magazine. I’m choosing not to buy it anymore.
- Wow, when I’m with that friend all I do is gossip about other people and to be honest, I can’t think of anything else to talk to her about. I think I’m going to start devoting more time to my other friendships.
- Good for me! I almost yelled at the kids, but instead I just spoke matter-of-factly! Whoo Hoo! (If you want help with this I highly recommend the “How to Get a Child to Listen Program” – a world-wide best seller)
When we’re happy and in alignment with the Divine there is no way we would watch Fashion Police on the E Network and criticise someone’s choice of outfit harshly.
Instead we would see the creativity in that person’s choices and the authentic nature of their own signature style. We’d admire their ability to wear something outside the norm.
And, our LIFE would be a Spiritual Practise…not just on Fridays or Sundays or during our morning meditations.
A Spiritual Woman Makes Her Life A Spiritual Practise
Right now, right here, proclaim that:
“I will live my life as a Spiritual Practise. I will choose my words intentionally. I will consciously choose which TV shows I watch, which magazines I buy and which friends I give most of my time and attention to.
And when I come into contact with someone I will connect with them on a Soul level, remembering that we come from exactly the same Source.
I will notice when I’ve judged and instead of judging myself for judging I will forgive myself and send love to myself as well as the other person.”
Let’s do this. Because we all know that when we change and up level our vibrational frequency to love and light, those around us naturally change too.
Our world needs us to LIVE Spiritual Lives, not just proclaim that we are Spiritual Women, right?
Try this for a week and see and feel the difference. If it feels REALLY difficult then perhaps you require a “reset”. I certainly needed that 6 years ago!
I’ve got a fun surprise for you next week! I’m starting a BRAND NEW Monthly Series on the Blog! I think you’re going to LOVE it!
With so much love,
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