As you can see we’ve had a bit of a Makeover. I’m so, so happy with the look, feel, and vibration of it. We simply had to be in alignment with the look and feel of the NEW AGE!
If you weren’t on my Facebook & Instagram LIVES today you may not have heard me speak about the New Age that is emerging. This isn’t a cute little phrase I’m using; it’s a time period that will be written about in the history books.
Certain systems have had to break down and deep issues have had to rise to the surface – on a personal, national AND global level.
It’s only when we become fully conscious and aware of problems that can solutions be found.
In this week’s video, I share with you where the world is heading, where the Elegant Life is heading, and what that all means for YOU!
Watch and learn all about it and let me know….are you with me?
Are you ready to be an Elegant, Divine part of history?
How are you feeling about the Coronavirus? Scared? Anxious? Don’t care? Nervous? Worried? Overwhelmed?
This week I had a loyal follower of The Elegant
ask me to share The Elegant Life perspective on the whole Coronavirus pandemic,
and I’m SO glad she did!
I am sitting back watching what feels like a Mini-Series on TV! And the underlying current that is being perpetuated is FEAR.
At the start of 2020, I filmed a video on the NEW powerful energy that is at work now. The momentum for change and elevation in consciousness is almost palpable!
This is the energy at play right now and if we use it wisely, via The Elegant Life Principles, we can floooow through this time period with ease & elegance and at the same time reach new levels of consciousness.
So, ready to hear my take on the whole Coronavirus Saga?
So, here’s one of the TOP questions I get asked: “How do I find my Life Purpose?”
Women all over the world are feeling the inner urge for fulfillment. Life as usual just isn’t cutting it anymore.
They want to feel like they are having an
impact. Doing something they love. Experiencing a sense of fulfillment that
simply doesn’t come from working for someone or being a mother or wife.
Not that those things are bad or boring or don’t bring a certain sense of fulfillment but women are desiring MORE.
I could do a masterclass on this topic actually, which I am sensing will very soon (Let me know if this would interest you by leaving me a comment below, okay?)
But, the video I filmed this week came to me to share first. It’s the first understanding and perspective that is necessary. PLUS I lead you through a guided meditation.
So, if you are one of the many women who is
desiring more from life, this video is for you. Please share it with any woman
you know who may benefit from hearing the message, okay?
How can I count the number of gifts it bestowed upon me? One of the grandest being self-love.
When you do a google search on self-love you will find videos, blogs, quotes, and podcasts speaking about WHY we need self-love, but what I have always found missing was the HOW.
HOW do we love ourselves?
I’ll never forget a memory: me in my early twenties, refusing to spontaneously go dancing with my group of friends.
Now, I LOVE dancing! It wasn’t that I didn’t want to dance, I DID! What stopped me in my tracks was that I didn’t feel confident enough in myself, have enough self-love & self-acceptance, to walk in there and just dance my heart out…while wearing jeans and a T-Shirt.
Instead, I got very upset with my friends who were “pressuring” me to go. I turned it on THEM and was so hurt that they were not being understanding.
(See how we spin things to suit our
ego/limiting beliefs?)
The next day I went over to my much older
friend’s house and shared my woes, hoping she would agree with my allegations.
She didn’t.
We got into a very looooooong discussion and then I asked her, “How do you know what your style is? You always seem so self-confident.”
Her answer? “I don’t know. I just do.”
Not very helpful, right?
This really sent me on a self-love pilgrimage. In 1997-1998 I found myself in France; a country where self-love comes easier. Not for everyone, but there is something ingrained in the women that served me SO well…and I want to share it with you in today’s video.
“Well, SHE thinks highly of herself, now doesn’t she?”
“I don’t like her. She’s SO ______.”
I could probably write a 10,000-word post just listing the countless ways we’ve judged others.
But here’s the real question: what about the judgement we place on ourselves?
Self-Judgement Is the Harshest Kind
Do any of these sound familiar?
“How could I be so stupid?”
“She’s 55 and not overweight—what’s wrong with me?”
“What I have to say doesn’t matter. Others say it better than I ever could.”
At first, judging others and judging ourselves may seem like two separate things. But in truth, they’re deeply connected. When you judge another woman, it often mirrors a hidden judgement you already carry about yourself.
And this cycle of comparison and criticism erodes our self-worth, feminine confidence, and joy.
The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck there.
The Elegant 3-Step Judgement Detox
I’ve created a simple, feminine, and very elegant 3-step practice to release judgement—whether it’s about yourself or someone else—and turn it into self-love in just seconds.
Step 1: Pause & Notice
The moment you catch yourself judging, pause. Take a breath and simply notice the thought without shaming yourself for it.
✨ Ask: “What is this really about?”
Step 2: Reflect & Redirect
Behind every judgement lies a wound, insecurity, or unmet need. Instead of letting the judgement spiral, gently redirect it with compassion.
✨ Ask: “What do I truly need right now—acceptance, love, or reassurance?”
Step 3: Replace With Self-Love
Choose a higher perspective. Speak to yourself the way you would to a dear friend. Replace the judgement with a loving truth.
Examples:
Instead of “She thinks she’s so special,” try: “I admire her confidence. I can cultivate that too.”
Instead of “I’m not good enough,” try: “My voice matters. What I offer is uniquely mine.”
Over time, this practice rewires your thoughts and strengthens your self-love, confidence, and feminine grace.
Your Invitation
Next time you catch yourself in judgement, try this Judgement Detox and see how quickly the energy shifts.
✨ Let me know in the comments what judgement you’ve struggled with—and how this practice helped you turn it into self-love.
With SO Much Love,
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Congratulations on taking your first step into The Elegant Life!
