I am back from the most amazing trip in Provence with two of my closest female friends. What a beautiful gift to have attracted these friends into my life.
It had been a long, long time since I travelled on my own with just female company and I truly cannot recommend it enough.
We laughed until we cried from take-off to landing 4 days later. You know that high pitch sound you make when trying to tell your funny story but can’t because you’re laughing so hard? That was us – I’m laughing right now just thinking about it!!!!
All three of us connected so deeply with one another, but also with ourselves.
My French girlfriend wrote me yesterday to say how thankful she was that I organized the trip as she hadn’t been away from her kids since having them 5 years ago (yes, 5 years!). She went on to explain how she finally felt reconnected to her old self and described how amazing that was.
(Excuse my poor “selfie” taking skills! LOL!)
If you have never booked a short trip away with the girls, set aside some time today or tomorrow to research places and book it. The feminine aspect of your soul will thank you deeply for it.
What if you don’t HAVE any quality friends?
You know the Elegant Clearing Process™ and other Elegant Processes I keep talking about? I used them to manifest these two beautiful girl friends.
You see, as I evolved as a person, I lost many friends and had to let some long time friends go.
I became quite down a few years ago as I didn’t feel like I had any truly close girlfriends who fed my soul, showed true interest in a friendship with me and allowed me to BE exactly who I was.
So…I created an Elegant Intention™ and used the Elegant Clearing Process™ to become very clear about the type of girlfriends I desired… and voila! All three ladies appeared so amazingly, you couldn’t write the script better, honestly.
The 3 Types of Quality Friends I Desired
I desired a French girlfriend so I could speak French with her and bask in my love of the French culture, French attitude and love of all things beautiful & pleasurable.
I desired a bubbly, energetic friend who adored getting together all the time; who would want to get together every week, and would text ME instead of always the other way around.
I desired someone with whom I could speak deeply about spirituality.
First came Sandrine, my French friend. A certain friend of mine would organise weekly get togethers at a Garden Centre play area so our kids could play while we enjoyed a coffee.
About 4 months after I had set my Elegant Intention for the kinds of friends I desired, Sandrine showed up at this gathering. Apparently, she was my other friend’s next door neighbour in an apartment.
My friend invited Sandrine along to the Garden Centre, and VOILA! we hit it off instantly and became close friends. The texts she sends me bring tears to my eyes daily. THANK YOU, UNIVERSE!
Next came Laura. Last year we were moving away from Windsor to a new area just outside of London. The person whose house we were moving into called me and said,
“Erin , you don’t know a Laura _____, do you?”
“I know of her. I’ve never met her, but I helped her get a job a long time ago. Why?”
“Well, I just happened to take the bus into work this morning and sat beside her husband. We got to talking and he’s from Canada. After talking, he said his wife knew you. It turns out they just moved from Houston and are living 2 blocks from the house! So, you’ll be neighbours!”
What are the chances???
Background story here:
10 years ago, I was retiring from teaching at a very prestigious school in Canada and my hubby sent me an email one day saying a collegue of his was asking if I would be able to help out his brother’s fiancé. She was coming from Ireland and needed a teaching job. “Sure,” I said. I emailed with her and helped her get a job at the school, but never met her.
This was Laura. After we moved to the new house, Laura asked to meet. She knew all my old teaching friends so we instantly had that in common, and just completely hit it off. She is bubbly, cheery, so kind and so much fun. And, guess what? She LOVES getting together…and would everyday if we could.
Finally, came Zeynep. Some other Turkish friends of ours invited Zeynep and her family to join a get together; I instantly loved her energy. As time passed, we realised we could speak very openly to each other.
As I evolved, she evolved. And, last year, we openly began discussing spirituality. She is on my wave length. I don’t have to filter, and we call eachother “soul sisters”.
Ta Da!!!
Manifestation of all my friends, done!
Now, as always, you know I don’t tell you this because I love talking about myself. I share it with you to offer you visual proof of how the Elegant Processes I speak of work.
I know that if you witness my story, your faith will build so that YOU TOO can elegantly intend and manifest that which you desire in your life.
The Universe does not judge. It does not decide what you can and cannot have. It’s neutral. Absolutely zero point, lovingly, neutral. You simply need to get into that zero point frequency and use the simple processes I speak of.
How do you get into that frequency?
Here’s what I want you to know – and it changed my life forever…
You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you are.
Read that again.
You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you are.
The amazing news is that it is SO SIMPLE to get into a high frequency…you just have to make it your #1 priority. Each and every day, this needs to be your focus.
Forget everything else, just focus on this for now.
If you haven’t seen my “Elegant Guide to Prosperity”, please click HERE. This will start you on your way, as it shares 14 simple and elegant ways to get and stay in the zero point, loving frequency.
Then, just keep following my posts, because ALL of the Elegant Processes will be revealed. Exciting, right??
Get ready, beautiful lady!
I am giddy with excitement to share all I have learned so that you can finally begin feeling lighter, more peaceful, more fulfilled, more prosperous, more beautiful and happier than ever before.
Here’s to the Elegant Life!!!!
Until next time,
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Katie, I thank you so very much for your beautiful comments. Yes, this blog comes from the depths of my heart and it makes me so happy to hear that the energy of it is being felt. Your words are so lovely…how wonderful it is that we crossed paths on instagram! SO thrilled you enjoy the gift with subscription – powerful things shifted for me once I removed those things. Thank you for coming along on this journey! x
LOVED this post! You are truly an amazing person that brings so much joy to people’s lives. I loved our weekly coffee dates and chatting to you about everything and anything. There was always laughter and I miss that. You always make me smile! Looking forward to another girly trip sometime in the near future , everyone needs a trip that’s so good for the mind, body and soul
I totally miss our weekly chats and laughs, my friend. I looked forward to them every single week. Let’s talk soon, maybe a 3 way Skype with Sandrine to plan our next trip – what do you say???
Sounds fantastic x