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ELEGANT COMMUNICATION: How to Get People to Hear What You Want Them to Hear

Ahhhhh…communication. Have you ever needed to speak to someone about something really important and almost as soon as the conversation began you both started yelling?

Yeah, me too.

Pre – 2011 (aka my profound Spiritual Awakening Experience) I used to build up my anger inside until I just blew. I felt like the same patterns kept repeating themselves and I would just become “DONE!” with him. He’d do something related to what was angering me and I’d just let him have it.

My common phrases to him were:

“You’re not listening!”

“How many times have I told you this?”

To which he would feel completely attacked and then lash out at me with a comment that deeply hurt and VOILA! Communication gone very wrong.

In this week’s video, I share exactly what we did to get out of this communication disaster and how we elegantly communicate now so that we really HEAR what the other wants and needs us to hear.

In this video you will learn:

  • The Science behind what is actually occurring during communication
  • The #1 myth about communication – this could be very controversial!
  • What to do when your communication isn’t working, so the person actually HEARS what you want them to.

 

With so much love,

erin