Last week I visited the ancient marble city of Ephesus and while driving home I realised that all the manifesting I had done had finally brought me another part of my dream reality.
When I was a school teacher I felt fulfilment because of the impact I was having on the children, yet after 17 years my Soul’s desires began to get louder.
The amount of structure and lack of freedom I had in my job (time-wise and money-wise) eventually sucked the life out of me and the impact didn’t even mean that much to me anymore.
“Is this it?” I often thought.
I loved travelling around the world, yet the only free time I had was during the most expensive time of the year…summer. My Soul desires to spontaneously travel, not plan and save for a whole year to take ONE trip!
Now? I live within a few hours of so many countries! My schedule is completely flexible and now that my children are in a British Online school, they too have a flexible schedule!
Flexiblity? Spontaneity? Abundance? Connection? THESE are feminine energies; no wonder I am so happy and fulfilled now!
I went on a very long journey to have the life of freedom I have now. And I want to share the shorter, most effective pathway so YOU can begin living YOUR dream life… Sooner than you would think possible.
I tried all the masculine advice. It’s great for them, but for us women? It always leaves us feeling deflated and like a failure.
So, in this week’s video I take you along with me to the ancient city of Ephesus and tell you more about the pathway to manifesting as a woman.
Click on the video below to see my incredible journey through Ephesus & learn how YOU can bring your dreams & desires to life.
I would LOVE to see you in my masterclass where I walk you through the pathway! To register click HERE.
Here are the details for our Tour Guide, Deniz: https://www.ephesustravelguide.com
Whoo Hoo! The summer holidays are here! Well, I have a few more days until we board the airplane but I’m feeling the excitement already!
I’m going to make this really short and sweet as I have a lot of loose ends to tie up before leaving. Can you relate? Life gets super busy just before a holiday!
In this week’s Summer Holidays video:
I share my blissful summer holiday plans – I’m checking a MAJOR thing off my bucket list!
I give you a truly life transforming Elegant Assignment to do over the summer holidays.
I ask you an extremely important question.
I’ll be back in September, however if you’d like to follow my summer holidays escapades please follow me on Instagram or Facebook!
The Manifesting video mentioned:
HOW THE DIVINE CAN ELEGANTLY MANIFEST THINGS FOR YOU (Our Turkey Summer House Story!) https://theelegantlife.com/elegantly-manifest/
What are YOU up to this summer? Travelling anywhere intriguing or new for you? Visiting friends or relatives? Have a favourite destination I definitely need to visit in this lifetime? Please share!
Have you every desired something SO much but found it almost impossible to “let go and let God” as everyone suggests?
Then this post is for you!
I am going to share 2 ways to practise the art of letting go and letting God. One is a mindset shift and the other is advice that I bet you’ve not heard before. (Psst…it a theme here on The Elegant Life:)
January is a month where everyone is focused on goals, dreams and DOING.
Plans are made, goal are being set, memberships to gyms are being bought, and the focus is on pursuing, trying and desperately wanting their desire to manifest.
I know this pattern well as it was my “go-to” strategy my whole life! Set a goal, make a plan, push, pursue, obsess…you get the picture! The energy I was giving off was one of desperation and lack – not very elegant and definitely not a high frequency for manifesting!
This is completely opposite from what I do now and teach my clients to do.
And…this is exactly what Buddha did before he experienced enlightenment and true happiness.
Many people know the story of how Buddha sat under the Bodhi tree and awakened, however not many people know WHY he ended up sitting under that tree. He was in the same trap I was in and perhaps you find yourself too?
Watch the video above, at minute 2:54, to hear the real reason Buddha sat under the bodhi tree.
2 Steps to “Let Go and Let God”
Step 1: Surrender.
As you can see from Buddha’s story, pushing, trying and pursuing does not serve us. We must understand the Elegant Principle of the Universe:
As soon as you state your intention, Divine Consciousness sets to work to orchestrate everything needed to bring you your desire.”
The problem arises, for most women, when they don’t see any change in their reality and thus start doubting, feeling down, and obsessing even more on trying to figure out “the HOW”.
Spiritual Women who live elegantly, instead, focus on just BEING & await Divine Inspiration.
Do not attach. I’ll repeat that, “Do not attach to the outcome”.
Should we even have desires? Yes! Desires are feelings and feelings come directly from your Soul, which is your connection to the Divine. So yes! You wouldn’t have those desires if you weren’t intended to experience them!
However, instead of obsessing, spend your time & energy visualising your dream. See it vividly, in the greatest detail. FEEL it. Then…
Step 2: Get on With Living Your Life (filling it with JOY & PLEASURE)
I know I know, I harp on this regularly, but trust me, it’s the secret of experiencing The Elegant Life!
If someone would have told me this years ago, when I was in the obsessing mode, I would have thought, “Yeah, easy for you to say!” It was only when I reached mental and physical exhaustion that I finally said,
Screw this! If success means I have to work this hard and be disappointed countless times then I don’t want it. I’m done. I’ll just do this as a hobby out of enjoyment instead of trying to make it a business.”
After I made that conscious decision I felt the weight of the world drop off me.
I began feeling my creativity come out more. I did things I was too scared to do before, out of fear it would “upset” my followers.
I felt the pleasure in what I was doing again- the same pleasure I felt when I first started that business!
And what began happening? Opportunities just flowed into my life like magic. Calls for interviews in top national and international magazines and newspapers, ideal clients coming to me from referrals...the list went on and on. I learned what Buddha did and I invite you to learn it too…
The more you let go and let god (aka surrender) the more you allow Divine energy to do it’s work and flow through you and your life.
All that obsessive energy will be gone as will the manifestation of things and experiences on that same frequency.
Instead, you’ll be resonating at the levels of PEACE & JOY which are just under that of enlightenment – levels that bring in high vibration, exquisite miracles.
Please share your stories of when and how YOU have “let go and let God” – I know it will help so many women.
Do you know there are certain areas of your life where you need to Surrender? Share those too.
Recommendation
If you would like a perfect way of focusing on your dreams the elegant way and feeling joy and inner peace now, then I highly recommend The 6 Phase Visioning Meditation.
Are you desiring to EXPAND this year? Expand in abundance? Abundance of health, love, money, fulfilment or inner peace?
There is an incredible energetic shift that is creating great desires within women right now. Not just desires, but the momentum to move elegantly towards those desires.
If ever you desired expansion and abundance, THIS is the year Universal energy will support you even more to make that a reality.
Find out how in this week’s video!
Here’s How You Expand into Abundance
1. A desire is felt within you.
A Natural Law is that the Universe, and everything within it, is always expanding. Therefore, your Soul, being an extension of this Universal energy, innately wants to expand. The beauty is that your Soul knows what is in it’s “programming”, aka the natural talents, personality traits and abilities that you have, which could assist in the expansion of your Soul (Divine Consciousness).
The Soul then creates a feeling and often an image or vision inside of you which you could call a “desire”. Now the conscious part of you gets to use it’s free will and creativity!
2. Become extremely clear on what you desire – see & feel every detail.
The MOST important thing you can do to bring abundance of anything into your life is to focus on the EXACT details you desire. This is where your free will and creativity come into play. Do you desire to earn $10,000/month by only working 3 days a week? What are you doing exactly? Where are you working? What does it look like in that space? What are you wearing? Who are you working with? If it’s an abundance of health you desire then what do you see yourself enjoying? What are you wearing? Who are you with? How do you feel? What are you doing that you’ve never been able to do?
The Divine doesn’t care HOW you expand, because you are always expanding anyway, it’s a universal law, however, wouldn’t it be delicious if you got to create HOW you expand? I always tell my clients that your life is a blank canvas on which YOU paint. YOU get to decide what it looks and feels like. Isn’t this fantastic?
Here are some questions that you can answer to guide you towards creating your next expansion. You can also simply free write and allow it to unfold naturally.
3. Commit to focusing on this desire (in an unattached way).
This step is where most women go wrong. They don’t allow the Divine to gift them their desires because they remain too stuck in focusing on what IS (what they don’t yet have). I have definitely manifested something incredible in 30 minutes, 2 weeks etc. however some of my grand desires have taken 7 years! Not because it had to take seven years, but because I was constantly focusing on what wasn’t in my life that I desired.
There is absolutely NO WAY you can attract into your life something that has a high vibration if you are vibrating in a low vibration. It goes against every Universal law that exists.
Obsessively, I would read The Secret, The Science of Getting Rich, Think and Grow Rich etc. ( I had a library!) all the while feeling desperate that it wasn’t working for me.
I would become SO hopeful then SO depressed. Then I’d buy another book thinking it would be my answer.
In order for us to elegantly manifest abundance into our lives we require to live in JOY, focus on what we desire ( in great detail), and clear any negative emotions or limiting beliefs that are blocking our abundance and Divine light. That’s it!
If you desire a beautiful program that has changed hundreds of women’s lives simply by training them to live elegantly and manifest elegantly, then I highly recommend investing in The Art of Living Elegantly . This is your ticket to freedom, inner peace, pleasure, fulfilment and yes, the abundance of whatever it is that your Soul desires.
4. Create the feeling that the desire will bring you…now, in any way you can.
One of the fastest ways to bring abundance of anything into your life is to begin feeling the way you know you’ll feel once your desire becomes your reality. I noticed a big change in my life when I began doing this 7 years ago.
I desired to be financially prosperous so I got super detailed about what I desired. In fact I answered the 9 questions listed above.
After this I had more clarity on exactly which emotions I would need to focus on creating in my current reality.
One of the things I began doing was having tea in 5 star hotels so that I could simply FEEL abundantly prosperous.
I also made sure that I always had some money in my wallet, even it is was just £5. This made me feel like I always had money available.
How could YOU begin to feel the way you desire right now, in your current reality? Share your ideas in the comments section. If you can’t think of any great ideas, share your desire and your desired feelings and I will help you brainstorm.
I do this every day with personal clients so I have a good repertoire for a variety of desires!
Et Voila! Enjoy the process and commit to it!
It can’t work unless you follow through. (If you struggle with following through then I highly recommend you enquire about my 1:1 Couture Coaching. We can dive deep to discover what your blocks are and clear them once and for all using my Elegant Quantum Techniques.
Prosperity, Abundance, Desires Coming true…where are you currently with all of this?
Are you waiting for your desires to appear? Do you feel frustrated? Are you feeling a bit depressed? How about overwhelmed at trying to figure out the “HOW”?
I can relate to all of these. At different stages of my life I would feel hopeful and excited and then depressed and even angry that “The Universe” wasn’t delivering me what I was asking for. Plus, I consistently focused my energy on trying to figure out HOW to make my desires come true. WRONG thing to do!
My intention with this week’s post is to let you know, trust and BELIEVE that the Universe has magical abilities to make your dreams and desires come true…you simply need to know how the Universe works and put those principles into practice…without focusing on the “How” of making your dreams become a reality. Ready?
You could have a desire about attracting more prosperity into your life, attaining (and maintaining) your ideal body, attracting a perfect partner into your life or getting a dream job somewhere and I’d give you the EXACT same advice, based on my experience of manifesting every single one of these ….and more!
Let me start off by saying this…
The only reason I share my story with you is so you know that if a teacher from Canada can manifest all of her desires, so can you. My story is meant to inspire and offer guidance on how I learned to manifest my soul’s desires, after suffering in desperation and deprivation most of my life.
How the Magic of the Universe Can Bring Your Desires to You
We just recently moved into a dream apartment in the neighbourhood of our dreams. Here is how it all played out and how easy and elegant the magic of the Universe can work in your favour.
When I was a school teacher in Canada there was one particular Spring Break that really stood out in my mind. The Spring Break when all my students seemed to be going to far away places to explore the world…and I couldn’t.
Money wasn’t available for me to do this and I felt a bit depressed about it.
When all the students arrived back from their travels they shared with me all of their adventures and although I was excited to hear about them, it made it even more “in my face” that I still was not at a point in my life where I could afford a luxury trip like they had all just experienced.
One boy came up to my desk and showed me pictures of his travels to Dubai as well as the Atlantis Hotel he stayed at.
WOW! It looked stunning. My heart flipped just looking at the photos. He swam with the dolphins (one of my life long dreams) and had loads of fun with his father in the waterpark and aquarium.
I sat there just stunned that some people were able to experience life this way. I SO wanted this for myself, but the next thought was,
“Pff…how in the world would I ever be able to experience that? Some experiences are just for the wealthy I guess.”
Years passed and I did everything imaginable to try and bring prosperity into my life. Little by little more prosperity came, but not as much as my soul knew it desired. It wanted to experience life FULLY, and more prosperity was needed to do that.
Fast forward 9 years and we managed to elegantly manifest a move to Dubai (Click HERE to read that beautiful story!)
We settled into a villa but soon realised that The Marina area was the area that would suit us better. We adore having everything at our doorstep and being able to go out to dinner or breakfast and walk home leisurely.
So, we did what we know to do, what I teach all of my clients and what is taught in The Art of Living Elegantly
First
We began going to The Marina each week and looked at different apartment buildings.
We found the perfect one! Amazing floor to ceiling views, quality finishings, huge balcony…done!
The only issue was that we could only move at the end of April and it was October!
Second
We created a life vision for Dubai. In very specific detail we discussed and wrote down exactly how we wanted our life to look and feel.
Third
We continued living “Elegantly” and did the Elegant Clearing Process™ daily on our perfect apartment and life vision.
Fourth
We awaited any inspiration to take. Time clicked on and we kept visiting the Marina and viewing properties. None matched our first choice. And NONE in our favourite building were coming available.
It would have been VERY easy to go down the panic route. The “what are we going to do?” route, but…The Art of Living Elegantly does not include this in it’s steps;)
The Magic in Action!
One day, my son’s school asked me if I’d be open to taking over a class for a bit as they knew I was a former teacher. I really didn’t want to, as I was busy enough with the growing and expanding Elegant Life Blog, but I listened and followed the guidance and said yes.
One day, near the end of my short stint, I was collecting some forms and noticed that one of the addresses of the students was the building we were going to look at later that day (and was directly next to our favourite building).
I was going to say something to her and then my ego came in and said, “Why? Just move on” But then Divine Inspiration came in and practically said the words for me…
“How funny! We’re coming to look at an apartment in your building after school today!”
What happened next is the utter MAGIC of the Divine.
This little girl said to me, “My mummy has something even better for you.”
[Slightly shocked]”Oh, really?”
“You can talk to her after school.”
“Okay!”
Well, I don’t think I even need to tell you the end of this story, do I?
Yep. She had a place in our favourite building that wasn’t even listed. It. Was. Perfect.
As I write this post I am sitting on my sofa, in Dubai, in a fricking amazing apartment, staring straight at….The Atlantis Hotel. (Come see it at minute 8:00 in the video above!)
Yes, I am still in shock I think. I can go to The Atlantis every day if I want and swim with those dolphins and experience the joy of playing in the waterparks with my kids.
I don’t even have words…
What are your dreams?
Do they seem too big?
Too impossible?
Please, please hear me when I tell you this….
If you do what I teach you, you can have, be and experience ANYTHING your soul desires.
I learned how this Universe works and it never fails me. After so many years of struggle and angst, it almost amazes me that I, Erin, am mentoring women on how to make their desires elegantly come true!
Look, I’ll get really honest here for a moment.
If what you are currently doing (or not doing) isn’t working for you…
If you don’t have the body, the health, the partner, the job, the prosperity, the clients…whatever! Then you need to do things differently.
Mentoring with me or going through The Art of Living Elegantly Program are two options, but all I ask you to do is get really specific about your life vision and then ask for Divine Inspiration as to what the next step is. Listen, Wait, or Take action on what it says, but don’t stay doing the same old things that may feel “comfortable”.
I’m telling you, life is BEAUTIFUL! It can offer you so, so much. More than you could even dream up for yourself.
And I’m not talking about life like some people do. I will never ever say, “Dream BIGGER!”, “GO HIGHER!”, or “DON”T PLAY SMALL!” because that is just ego stuff that is led by your subconscious thoughts.
It’s a sneaky way of making you think you need to do or have more to BE more, and that is NOT what The Elegant Life is about.
The Elegant Life is a beautiful way of connecting with your Divinity and allowing this connection to elegantly help you manifest and live this life to the fullest expression of your soul and it’s desires.
If you have questions about dreams, desires, or manifesting please write them in the comments below. It’s always so great to hear from you so I know what type of posts to focus on in service of you.
Here’s to your dreams and desires!!!
With so much love,
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