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Why You Don’t Feel Good Enough (Plus CONFIDENCE SOLUTIONS)

If you’ve ever had a moment where you didn’t feel good enough, this post is for you!

To start, it’s SO important to realize where this feeling of not being good enough comes from.

You see, we were raised in a society where achievement was applauded. So over time the ego believes:

“I am what I DO.”

“I am what I HAVE.”

“I am what I look like.”

“I am what I’ve accomplished.”

Your Soul on the other hand simply says, “I AM.”

You are enough because you are here. You didn’t exist and then you were consciously created by Divine Consciousness. It was not random. You were intentionally created, exactly as you are.

This means that you don’t have to do, be or have anything to be good enough!

All the books say that the answer to feeling good enough is to love yourself.

I get so frustrated when I see this because they never tell you HOW!

I used to wonder, “HOW do I love and accept myself when I have such short comings?”

I stood in the mirror and saw everything I wasn’t.

Can you relate?

You stand in front of the mirror and feel not good enough because you don’t have the:

  • Body that society deems as good enough
  • Money that society has said is big enough
  • Soul mate 
  • Big house
  • Stunning car
  • Wrinkle-free face

The Solution?

You need to release the need for outside validation and praise.

The problem?

You’ve outsourced your validation of being good enough to your:

  1. Society
  2. Boss
  3. Parents
  4. Partner
  5. Children
  6. Clients
    In order for you to feel good enough and full of feminine confidence, it is imperative that you learn how to validate yourself.

Let me show you how in today’s video.

To learn how to fully Embody Feminine Confidence With Ease watch this FREE CONFIDENCE MASTERCLASS HERE

Book a FREE Confidence Breakthrough Call with me HERE

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CategoriesELEGANT BEAUTY, MANIFESTING CONFIDENCE

CONFIDENCE BOOSTING MAKEUP FOR WOMEN Over 40 *My HOLY GRAIL PRODUCTS*

If you are over 40 and want to boost your confidence then this week’s video is for you!

Tomorrow I will officially be joining the “over 50” group and I’m so excited! 

I have more feminine confidence than ever before and I owe a portion of that confidence to the life-changing makeup tips and tricks I have gained over the course of my life, as well as the most exquisite makeup products that I simply adore!

They are truly my holy grail products! 

In this week’s video I share some of my best confidence boosting makeup tips & makeup brands for women over 40.

I share my magical trick for how to stop concealer creasing, how to best cover dark circles & how to glow so you feel beautiful and confident every single day!

Since I am a francophile and have lived in France, my makeup style is highly influenced by the French look.

I like my makeup to look elegant, simple and natural. I guess you could say that all of my makeup looks are either a Parisian makeup look or French makeup look.

Et toi?

My intention is that this video is confidence boosting for you, that your feminine energy glows and that your confidence radiates.

CONFIDENCE BOOSTING PRODUCTS MENTIONED:

  1. It Cosmetics CC Cream Spf 50: HERE
  2. Charlotte Tilbury Blush – my colour is Ecstasy: HERE
  3. Charlotte tilbury Luxury Eye Palette – the one I use is Bella Sofia: HERE
  4. By Terry CC Serum – in Sunny Flash: HERE
  5. Drunk Elephant D Bronzi Bronzing Drops: HERE
  6. Charlotte Tilbury Highlighter Wand – in Spotlight: HERE
  7. Charlotte Tilbury Bitch Perfect – K.i.s.s.i.n.g – Peach Lipstick: HERE
  8. Milk Makeup Blur & Set Powder: HERE
  9. L’Oreal Paris Paradise mascara: HERE
  10. Too Faced Born This Way Concealer: HERE
  11. Mac Prep and Prime Highlighter Pen – in Bright Forecast: HERE
  12. Nars Mini Duo Laguna Orgasm Blush: HERE
  13. Charlotte Tilbury Lip Liner – in Pillow Talk: HERE
  14. MAC Brushstroke Liner: HERE

FREE MASTERCLASS: 

How to Embody Feminine Confidence: 4 Keys to Unshakeable Confidence So You Can Manifest, Do & Be ANYTHING Your Soul Desires HERE

SAY HELLO ON SOCIAL:

Instagram: HERE

Facebook: HERE

With so much love,

Erin

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CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, UNCATEGORIZED

5 GUARANTEED WAYS TO LOVE YOURSELF *This is HOW TO Love Yourself*

I was watching a video the other day and one woman asked, How can you love yourself more?”

Want to know the answer that was given?

Believe in yourself.

I literally laughed out loud! What? THIS is the advice given to women struggling with self-doubt, fears, and not feeling good enough?

As you probably know by now, the reason I teach you how to love yourself more and have unshakeable feminine confidence is because at one time I had such low confidence.

My low confidence stopped me from living my life fully. I know the pain of it. I know the feeling in your heart of desperately wanting to manifest or do something and not feel confident enough to do it.

How Low Self Love & Low Confidence Affected My Life

  • I always said yes to things even when I really didn’t want to do something
  • I “over gave” until I burned out because I felt I had to “prove myself”
  • I couldn’t charge what I was worth. In fact, I felt guilty even asking for $47!
  • I felt awkward and out of place in upscale places because I didn’t feel good enough or worthy enough to be there
  • I didn’t go places on my own or do things on my own out of fear people would look at me strange
  • I opted out of doing things my Soul really wanted to do. For example, in high school I was asked to be in the Jazz Club and to be a part of the French Exchange program – I said no to both.

The list could go on and on and on! Doesn’t sound like a life full of joy and freedom, now does it?

I compare my old life to what I have done since gaining self-love and confidence and it literally blows me away. What? Little Erin? How did it happen? How am I able to make dream after dream come true when before I wouldn’t go for anything!?

Over time I did some things to practise self-love and improve my confidence…and they worked!

In today’s video, I want to share with you 5 guaranteed ways to love yourself. Truly, if you do these, you will upgrade and exquisitely elevate your life!

Remember, you can’t just watch it, nod your head and then continue doing what you’ve been doing. You actually have to put these things into practice. That is what I did and still do to this day. It’s what my most successful clients have done and continue to do!

One client said, “When you do what Erin says, it works! Life is…easy!” I couldn’t agree more.

FREE GUIDE

Access the “How to Finally Love Yourself to the Core” Free Guide HERE.

A VIDEO YOU MAY ALSO FIND HELPFUL:

“Self Love Habits Affirmations” is HERE.

With so much love,

 

CategoriesELEGANT TRAVEL, MANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING INNER PEACE, MANIFESTING JOY, MANIFESTING PROSPERITY, UNCATEGORIZED

MANIFESTING IN THE 3,000 YEAR OLD CITY OF EPHESUS *Manifesting For Women*

Last week I visited the ancient marble city of Ephesus and while driving home I realised that all the manifesting I had done had finally brought me another part of my dream reality.

When I was a school teacher I felt fulfilment because of the impact I was having on the children, yet after 17 years my Soul’s desires began to get louder.

The amount of structure and lack of freedom I had in my job (time-wise and money-wise) eventually sucked the life out of me and the impact didn’t even mean that much to me anymore.

“Is this it?” I often thought.

I loved travelling around the world, yet the only free time I had was during the most expensive time of the year…summer. My Soul desires to spontaneously travel, not plan and save for a whole year to take ONE trip!

Now? I live within a few hours of so many countries! My schedule is completely flexible and now that my children are in a British Online school, they too have a flexible schedule!

Flexiblity? Spontaneity? Abundance? Connection? THESE are feminine energies; no wonder I am so happy and fulfilled now!

I went on a very long journey to have the life of freedom I have now. And I want to share the shorter, most effective pathway so YOU can begin living YOUR  dream life… Sooner than you would think possible.

I tried all the masculine advice. It’s great for them, but for us women? It always leaves us feeling deflated and like a failure.

So, in this week’s video I take you along with me to the ancient city of Ephesus and tell you more about the pathway to manifesting as a woman.

Click on the video below to see my incredible journey through Ephesus & learn how YOU can bring your dreams & desires to life.

I would LOVE to see you in my masterclass where I walk you through the pathway! To register click HERE.

Here are the details for our Tour Guide, Deniz: https://www.ephesustravelguide.com

Erin Kurt
CategoriesELEGANT TRAVEL, MANIFESTING CONFIDENCE

A NEW ELEGANT LIFE Coming This Season

A NEW SEASON OF THE ELEGANT LIFE | All the elegant, exciting changes!

 

I’m back from my month-long holiday feeling rejuvenated and excited for this NEW season of The Elegant Life.

I always find that I receive a tremendous amount of guidance and inspiration on my holidays. And this time was no exception.

My Soul has been desiring to express itself even more fully AND I have felt an even greater calling to share my teachings on feminine confidence, feminine energy and how to live a spiritual, elegant lifestyle with even more women around the world.

Why?

Well, last year it became crystal clear that what women really wanted and needed was more confidence. But not the old type of confidence. You know, the type associated with achieving? I’m speaking about the feminine type of confidence.

So many women have asked me over the years:

“Erin, how do you show up so easily on YouTube and Instagram?”

“How do you have the confidence to do and be who you are now when your first job was as a primary school teacher?”

It was indeed quite the journey, yet it led me to know the path to fully embodying feminine confidence.

In fact last year I took a group of women through my newest program, The Elegant Art of Feminine Confidence, and it changed lives.

This program is and will continue to be my foundational, signature program to help women, like you, to finally, finally have self-love and self-confidence. 

The process

It involves assisting you in actually understanding and LIVING The Elegant Life. Along with this, I take you through activations to reawaken the feminine energies you’ve been disassociated with, forgot, or never even knew you had. It’s truly empowering. 

This summer my Soul guided me to showcase exactly what The Elegant Lifestyle really is, both here on the blog and on my YouTube Channel.

So in today’s video, I show you some of the fun things I did on my holiday. I will also give a and break down what you can expect to see and learn in this NEW, elevated season of The Elegant Life. 

May this season inspire you and most importantly serve you in upgrading into the next best version of yourself.

If there are any topics you’d love me to make a video on, please do share them in the comments below.

And, if you would like to learn more about how to fully embody feminine confidence feel free to watch the Masterclass I ran in July!

MASTERCLASS: Click HERE to watch!

 

With so much love,