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CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, UNCATEGORIZED

3 TRICKS TO CREATE & STICK TO HEALTHY HABITS… AS A WOMAN! (They Really Work!)

A couple of weeks ago I created a self love habits affirmations video which has received incredible feedback. Click HERE to watch that one.

Affirmations are one way to create a healthy habit as a woman, yet there is definitely another powerful way…which brings me to today’s video teaching.

You see, many books such as Atomic Habits & The Miracle Morning are written by men who share powerful strategies on how to create healthy habits, but that is just the point… they are written by men.

The techniques work perfectly… for men!

Some women enjoy them and receive benefits, but from what I’ve seen from my clients; they start, they do the techniques for a while and then they stop. WHY?

Because these structures completely go against our natural wiring as females with feminine energy.

I explain everything in today’s video on how you as a woman can finally create and stick to the healthy habits that your Soul desires.

Enjoy and please let me know if you have any further questions or suggestions for video topics, okay?

ekurt
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, UNCATEGORIZED

3 Tips on HOW TO RAISE A CONFIDENT DAUGHTER | Raising Confident Girls

An Instagram follower messaged me to say how much she loved my message on feminine confidence and wondered if I could do a video on how to raise a confident daughter.

Of course, I exclaimed, “YES!”

If you haven’t guessed by now I am so incredibly passionate about empowering women and girls with the knowledge and embodiment of their personal strengths, uniqueness & power, so I sat down to record today’s video.

In this video, I share my top 3 ways to raise a confident girl, yet this advice could be used for boys too. In fact, it’s great information for you too!

Even if you don’t have children or your children are all grown up this video is for you.

The information I share on raising a confident girl can be used to upgrade your friend, sister, mother, aunt, colleague or employee’s self esteem and feminine confidence, so please do watch.

All right I’ll leave the rest of my chatting for the video.  Enjoy and let me know if you have any other ways you’ve tried to install confidence in your daughter or the women in your life.

 

ekurt
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, UNCATEGORIZED

SELF LOVE HABITS AFFIRMATIONS | INCREASE FEMININE CONFIDENCE WITH SELF LOVE HABITS

So here’s the science on the power of self love habits:

  • Performing a task that is good for you trains your brain to believe that you love yourself
  • This self love belief, if felt enough times via your self love habit, becomes a conviction your brain holds.
  • Once the brain holds a conviction long enough, by you continuing to perform this self love habit, the belief becomes one of the CORE beliefs you hold about yourself.

In simple terms, having self love habits as a regular part of your lifestyle naturally and organically makes you love yourself as well as builds your self confidence. Just think of what would be possible for you, in all areas of your life, if you felt more confident, right?

Now, here’s the issue most women have… sticking to the habits!

I know a lot about the women who follow me and The Elegant Life quite well, so I know what works to shift this issue. Why? Ahem…I used to start a habit and after a while… become bored, so I get it!

What I know about us is that we love to know WHY something is good for us; how will it greatly benefit us, and not just a little, but profoundly, right?

The beginning of this post explained the WHY, so now let’s move on to HOW we can start making these habits naturally become a part of our lifestyle.

One elegant way is to regularly listen to self love habits affirmations so that your brain becomes programmed to want to do the self love habits!

This brings me to today’s video!

Thanks to a viewer suggestion I have created a Self Love Habits Affirmations video that you can listen to every morning or evening!

You’re going to love it! Be sure to bookmark it or save it so you can easily use each and every day. My gift to you!

Enjoy!!! And please let me know which self love habit you were just naturally able to create or stick to, okay?

 

ekurt
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, UNCATEGORIZED

How to Attract A Soulmate & Live Happily Ever After?

Is your Soul desiring a Soulmate?

 

Or, if you’re currently in a relationship, do you wish your partner felt more like a Soulmate?

 

In today’s video I go into detail about:

  • What a Soulmate really is
  • How to attract one
  • What to expect once you’ve manifested a Soulmate

 

During the past year and a half, many women have had a lot of time to reflect on their lives and one of the areas that were highlighted due to the lockdown experience was that of relationships.

 

Did you perhaps read a novel or watch a movie and yearn for your soulmate to arrive already?

 

Or, did you read a romance novel or watch a romantic movie and think, “My partner doesn’t do that. I don’t feel that way in MY relationship. Is it time to leave this relationship?”

 

If so, please know that this is normal. When we see something that makes us feel so good and compare it to our current reality we can feel down.

 

Yet, I always want to empower you with an elegant perspective. From that kind of perspective, you can make decisions or take actions in support of your highest good instead of making decisions from a disempowered victim’s perspective.

 

Even if you’re in a very happy, healthy relationship right now, you’ll gain something from this video, so enjoy and please let me know your biggest takeaway, okay?

ekurt
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, UNCATEGORIZED

HOW TO FORGIVE…in a Feminine, Elegant Way

How to Forgive; is one topic I often have to review with private clients.

 

As with everything, the community or household in which you grew up impacted how you react to situations and how you forgive (or whether you forgive at all!)

 

In today’s video I explain the most common way that most people forgive – please note…it’s VERY disempowering!

 

Not to worry though, I also teach the exact phrase to use if someone apologises to you, as well as the three phrases you can use to forgive a person who hasn’t apologised.

 

Forgiveness, the Elegant Way, is truly about setting yourself free. It allows you to live a full life; a life without resentment, anger, hurt, or grudges.

 

Keep them and you hurt yourself every single day, not the other person.

 

You also have the potential to hurt those you love because you take out unresolved issues on them.

 

So, as you can see it serves you to learn more about forgiveness and how to do it elegantly.

 

Enjoy the video and please do let me know if you have any questions.

 

ekurt