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5 GUARANTEED WAYS TO LOVE YOURSELF *This is HOW TO Love Yourself*

I was watching a video the other day and one woman asked, How can you love yourself more?”

Want to know the answer that was given?

Believe in yourself.

I literally laughed out loud! What? THIS is the advice given to women struggling with self-doubt, fears, and not feeling good enough?

As you probably know by now, the reason I teach you how to love yourself more and have unshakeable feminine confidence is because at one time I had such low confidence.

My low confidence stopped me from living my life fully. I know the pain of it. I know the feeling in your heart of desperately wanting to manifest or do something and not feel confident enough to do it.

How Low Self Love & Low Confidence Affected My Life

  • I always said yes to things even when I really didn’t want to do something
  • I “over gave” until I burned out because I felt I had to “prove myself”
  • I couldn’t charge what I was worth. In fact, I felt guilty even asking for $47!
  • I felt awkward and out of place in upscale places because I didn’t feel good enough or worthy enough to be there
  • I didn’t go places on my own or do things on my own out of fear people would look at me strange
  • I opted out of doing things my Soul really wanted to do. For example, in high school I was asked to be in the Jazz Club and to be a part of the French Exchange program – I said no to both.

The list could go on and on and on! Doesn’t sound like a life full of joy and freedom, now does it?

I compare my old life to what I have done since gaining self-love and confidence and it literally blows me away. What? Little Erin? How did it happen? How am I able to make dream after dream come true when before I wouldn’t go for anything!?

Over time I did some things to practise self-love and improve my confidence…and they worked!

In today’s video, I want to share with you 5 guaranteed ways to love yourself. Truly, if you do these, you will upgrade and exquisitely elevate your life!

Remember, you can’t just watch it, nod your head and then continue doing what you’ve been doing. You actually have to put these things into practice. That is what I did and still do to this day. It’s what my most successful clients have done and continue to do!

One client said, “When you do what Erin says, it works! Life is…easy!” I couldn’t agree more.

FREE GUIDE

Access the “How to Finally Love Yourself to the Core” Free Guide HERE.

A VIDEO YOU MAY ALSO FIND HELPFUL:

“Self Love Habits Affirmations” is HERE.

With so much love,

 

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How France Taught Me to Love Myself

Ahhhh la France!

How can I count the number of gifts it bestowed upon me? One of the grandest being self-love.

When you do a google search on self-love you will find videos, blogs, quotes, and podcasts speaking about WHY we need self-love, but what I have always found missing was the HOW.

HOW do we love ourselves?

I’ll never forget a memory: me in my early twenties, refusing to spontaneously go dancing with my group of friends.

Now, I LOVE dancing! It wasn’t that I didn’t want to dance, I DID! What stopped me in my tracks was that I didn’t feel confident enough in myself, have enough self-love & self-acceptance, to walk in there and just dance my heart out…while wearing jeans and a T-Shirt.

Instead, I got very upset with my friends who were “pressuring” me to go. I turned it on THEM and was so hurt that they were not being understanding.

(See how we spin things to suit our ego/limiting beliefs?)

The next day I went over to my much older friend’s house and shared my woes, hoping she would agree with my allegations. She didn’t.

We got into a very looooooong discussion and then I asked her, “How do you know what your style is? You always seem so self-confident.”

Her answer? “I don’t know. I just do.”

Not very helpful, right?

This really sent me on a self-love pilgrimage. In 1997-1998 I found myself in France; a country where self-love comes easier. Not for everyone, but there is something ingrained in the women that served me SO well…and I want to share it with you in today’s video.

With SO Much Love,