I cannot tell you how many of my clients are dealing with relationship issues. In fact just after I finished filming this video series a woman contacted me who was desiring coaching on how to attract the perfect partner!
It has been such a theme within the past 3 years that I thought, since we’re in the month of “LOVE” that I do a thorough video series on How to Elegantly Attract or Have a Fulfilling Relationship. I cover everythign from A-Z so get ready to ENJOY!
ANNOUNCEMENT! You’ve probably noticed that I have been absent for the past couple of weeks. I had a tremendously busy January and eventually got ill. During this time I realised that some things needed to change so that I could FULLY fulfill my Life Calling without burning out.
And, what needed to change was this blog. Many of you may not know that every blog post takes about 2 1/2 days to complete. With the filming, editing, uploading, writing, organising, creating of images etc. it’s a full time job.
With me coaching clients here in Dubai as well as all over the world my schedule is packed. Not to mention the LIVE workshops I do every month as well as being a very present mommy to my two children. Get the picture? It was getting to be too much.
During the past weeks, I have added even more support to my life – a chef that specialises in high vibration food which looks beautiful – he garnishes with flowers!!!! Totally in line with the Elegant Approach to living & eating!
I have also reflected on which aspects of the blog I adore most – the tasks that give me joy and pleasure and those that leave me dragging my feet each week.
Changes to the Blog From Now Onwards
So, the short of the story is that I will be filming more videos (something I adore doing) but I will not be writing a full blog post to match. I will write a little introduction/ blurb and point out important points but the full on written portion of the blog will no longer be present.
I know some of you really love to read, but I simply cannot fulfil that need anymore without burning out. I hope you understand and begin to enjoy watching the videos as much as you enjoyed reading the posts. Who knows, perhaps it will aid you in creating a special moment each week to slow down and make watching the video a beautiful ritual for yourself!
Perhaps you could make a lovely tea and serve it in a beautiful tea cup while enjoying the video! Let me know your comments or ideas, okay?
So without further ado, enjoy PART 1 of this Relationship series.
Have you every desired something SO much but found it almost impossible to “let go and let God” as everyone suggests?
Then this post is for you!
I am going to share 2 ways to practise the art of letting go and letting God. One is a mindset shift and the other is advice that I bet you’ve not heard before. (Psst…it a theme here on The Elegant Life:)
January is a month where everyone is focused on goals, dreams and DOING.
Plans are made, goal are being set, memberships to gyms are being bought, and the focus is on pursuing, trying and desperately wanting their desire to manifest.
I know this pattern well as it was my “go-to” strategy my whole life! Set a goal, make a plan, push, pursue, obsess…you get the picture! The energy I was giving off was one of desperation and lack – not very elegant and definitely not a high frequency for manifesting!
This is completely opposite from what I do now and teach my clients to do.
And…this is exactly what Buddha did before he experienced enlightenment and true happiness.
Many people know the story of how Buddha sat under the Bodhi tree and awakened, however not many people know WHY he ended up sitting under that tree. He was in the same trap I was in and perhaps you find yourself too?
Watch the video above, at minute 2:54, to hear the real reason Buddha sat under the bodhi tree.
2 Steps to “Let Go and Let God”
Step 1: Surrender.
As you can see from Buddha’s story, pushing, trying and pursuing does not serve us. We must understand the Elegant Principle of the Universe:
As soon as you state your intention, Divine Consciousness sets to work to orchestrate everything needed to bring you your desire.”
The problem arises, for most women, when they don’t see any change in their reality and thus start doubting, feeling down, and obsessing even more on trying to figure out “the HOW”.
Spiritual Women who live elegantly, instead, focus on just BEING & await Divine Inspiration.
Do not attach. I’ll repeat that, “Do not attach to the outcome”.
Should we even have desires? Yes! Desires are feelings and feelings come directly from your Soul, which is your connection to the Divine. So yes! You wouldn’t have those desires if you weren’t intended to experience them!
However, instead of obsessing, spend your time & energy visualising your dream. See it vividly, in the greatest detail. FEEL it. Then…
Step 2: Get on With Living Your Life (filling it with JOY & PLEASURE)
I know I know, I harp on this regularly, but trust me, it’s the secret of experiencing The Elegant Life!
If someone would have told me this years ago, when I was in the obsessing mode, I would have thought, “Yeah, easy for you to say!” It was only when I reached mental and physical exhaustion that I finally said,
Screw this! If success means I have to work this hard and be disappointed countless times then I don’t want it. I’m done. I’ll just do this as a hobby out of enjoyment instead of trying to make it a business.”
After I made that conscious decision I felt the weight of the world drop off me.
I began feeling my creativity come out more. I did things I was too scared to do before, out of fear it would “upset” my followers.
I felt the pleasure in what I was doing again- the same pleasure I felt when I first started that business!
And what began happening? Opportunities just flowed into my life like magic. Calls for interviews in top national and international magazines and newspapers, ideal clients coming to me from referrals...the list went on and on. I learned what Buddha did and I invite you to learn it too…
The more you let go and let god (aka surrender) the more you allow Divine energy to do it’s work and flow through you and your life.
All that obsessive energy will be gone as will the manifestation of things and experiences on that same frequency.
Instead, you’ll be resonating at the levels of PEACE & JOY which are just under that of enlightenment – levels that bring in high vibration, exquisite miracles.
Please share your stories of when and how YOU have “let go and let God” – I know it will help so many women.
Do you know there are certain areas of your life where you need to Surrender? Share those too.
Recommendation
If you would like a perfect way of focusing on your dreams the elegant way and feeling joy and inner peace now, then I highly recommend The 6 Phase Visioning Meditation.
Prosperity, Abundance, Desires Coming true…where are you currently with all of this?
Are you waiting for your desires to appear? Do you feel frustrated? Are you feeling a bit depressed? How about overwhelmed at trying to figure out the “HOW”?
I can relate to all of these. At different stages of my life I would feel hopeful and excited and then depressed and even angry that “The Universe” wasn’t delivering me what I was asking for. Plus, I consistently focused my energy on trying to figure out HOW to make my desires come true. WRONG thing to do!
My intention with this week’s post is to let you know, trust and BELIEVE that the Universe has magical abilities to make your dreams and desires come true…you simply need to know how the Universe works and put those principles into practice…without focusing on the “How” of making your dreams become a reality. Ready?
You could have a desire about attracting more prosperity into your life, attaining (and maintaining) your ideal body, attracting a perfect partner into your life or getting a dream job somewhere and I’d give you the EXACT same advice, based on my experience of manifesting every single one of these ….and more!
Let me start off by saying this…
The only reason I share my story with you is so you know that if a teacher from Canada can manifest all of her desires, so can you. My story is meant to inspire and offer guidance on how I learned to manifest my soul’s desires, after suffering in desperation and deprivation most of my life.
How the Magic of the Universe Can Bring Your Desires to You
We just recently moved into a dream apartment in the neighbourhood of our dreams. Here is how it all played out and how easy and elegant the magic of the Universe can work in your favour.
When I was a school teacher in Canada there was one particular Spring Break that really stood out in my mind. The Spring Break when all my students seemed to be going to far away places to explore the world…and I couldn’t.
Money wasn’t available for me to do this and I felt a bit depressed about it.
When all the students arrived back from their travels they shared with me all of their adventures and although I was excited to hear about them, it made it even more “in my face” that I still was not at a point in my life where I could afford a luxury trip like they had all just experienced.
One boy came up to my desk and showed me pictures of his travels to Dubai as well as the Atlantis Hotel he stayed at.
WOW! It looked stunning. My heart flipped just looking at the photos. He swam with the dolphins (one of my life long dreams) and had loads of fun with his father in the waterpark and aquarium.
I sat there just stunned that some people were able to experience life this way. I SO wanted this for myself, but the next thought was,
“Pff…how in the world would I ever be able to experience that? Some experiences are just for the wealthy I guess.”
Years passed and I did everything imaginable to try and bring prosperity into my life. Little by little more prosperity came, but not as much as my soul knew it desired. It wanted to experience life FULLY, and more prosperity was needed to do that.
Fast forward 9 years and we managed to elegantly manifest a move to Dubai (Click HERE to read that beautiful story!)
We settled into a villa but soon realised that The Marina area was the area that would suit us better. We adore having everything at our doorstep and being able to go out to dinner or breakfast and walk home leisurely.
So, we did what we know to do, what I teach all of my clients and what is taught in The Art of Living Elegantly
First
We began going to The Marina each week and looked at different apartment buildings.
We found the perfect one! Amazing floor to ceiling views, quality finishings, huge balcony…done!
The only issue was that we could only move at the end of April and it was October!
Second
We created a life vision for Dubai. In very specific detail we discussed and wrote down exactly how we wanted our life to look and feel.
Third
We continued living “Elegantly” and did the Elegant Clearing Process™ daily on our perfect apartment and life vision.
Fourth
We awaited any inspiration to take. Time clicked on and we kept visiting the Marina and viewing properties. None matched our first choice. And NONE in our favourite building were coming available.
It would have been VERY easy to go down the panic route. The “what are we going to do?” route, but…The Art of Living Elegantly does not include this in it’s steps;)
The Magic in Action!
One day, my son’s school asked me if I’d be open to taking over a class for a bit as they knew I was a former teacher. I really didn’t want to, as I was busy enough with the growing and expanding Elegant Life Blog, but I listened and followed the guidance and said yes.
One day, near the end of my short stint, I was collecting some forms and noticed that one of the addresses of the students was the building we were going to look at later that day (and was directly next to our favourite building).
I was going to say something to her and then my ego came in and said, “Why? Just move on” But then Divine Inspiration came in and practically said the words for me…
“How funny! We’re coming to look at an apartment in your building after school today!”
What happened next is the utter MAGIC of the Divine.
This little girl said to me, “My mummy has something even better for you.”
[Slightly shocked]”Oh, really?”
“You can talk to her after school.”
“Okay!”
Well, I don’t think I even need to tell you the end of this story, do I?
Yep. She had a place in our favourite building that wasn’t even listed. It. Was. Perfect.
As I write this post I am sitting on my sofa, in Dubai, in a fricking amazing apartment, staring straight at….The Atlantis Hotel. (Come see it at minute 8:00 in the video above!)
Yes, I am still in shock I think. I can go to The Atlantis every day if I want and swim with those dolphins and experience the joy of playing in the waterparks with my kids.
I don’t even have words…
What are your dreams?
Do they seem too big?
Too impossible?
Please, please hear me when I tell you this….
If you do what I teach you, you can have, be and experience ANYTHING your soul desires.
I learned how this Universe works and it never fails me. After so many years of struggle and angst, it almost amazes me that I, Erin, am mentoring women on how to make their desires elegantly come true!
Look, I’ll get really honest here for a moment.
If what you are currently doing (or not doing) isn’t working for you…
If you don’t have the body, the health, the partner, the job, the prosperity, the clients…whatever! Then you need to do things differently.
Mentoring with me or going through The Art of Living Elegantly Program are two options, but all I ask you to do is get really specific about your life vision and then ask for Divine Inspiration as to what the next step is. Listen, Wait, or Take action on what it says, but don’t stay doing the same old things that may feel “comfortable”.
I’m telling you, life is BEAUTIFUL! It can offer you so, so much. More than you could even dream up for yourself.
And I’m not talking about life like some people do. I will never ever say, “Dream BIGGER!”, “GO HIGHER!”, or “DON”T PLAY SMALL!” because that is just ego stuff that is led by your subconscious thoughts.
It’s a sneaky way of making you think you need to do or have more to BE more, and that is NOT what The Elegant Life is about.
The Elegant Life is a beautiful way of connecting with your Divinity and allowing this connection to elegantly help you manifest and live this life to the fullest expression of your soul and it’s desires.
If you have questions about dreams, desires, or manifesting please write them in the comments below. It’s always so great to hear from you so I know what type of posts to focus on in service of you.
Diets, Exercise, Deprivation…No more! It’s time to elegantly step into your BEST BODY today!
Let’s chant this, ladies! How liberating to never ever have to diet again. In fact, go throw out every diet book you’ve ever purchased. I’ll wait. Whoo Hoo!
Over the past 4 weeks I’ve gone through some of the steps I took (and still do to this day) to elegantly melt 50 pounds off my body.
I review them really quickly at the start of the video above, so have a quick watch!
However…there were things I didn’t have time to share. And, I wasn’t able to gift you the kind of support I know will be SO helpful if you really want to have this work for you like it did for me.
Based on my experience and conversations with women who are wanting to live this way too, I created a simple 6 week program that will elegantly guide you into your best body.
I highly encourage you to watch the video above to hear me explain all the juicy details (you can start at minute 3:52 if you are short on time)
In a nutshell though, here is what I KNOW will allow you to attain & maintain your best body.
In this 6 week Elegant Guide you will receive:
1) My Top 6 Elegant & Effective Movements for Women (these are simple, fun & feminine and can be done in 20 minutes or less. Hurray!)
2) My Personal 2-Step Morning Ritual for Incredible Health & Vitality (This sets me up for a speedy metabolism and consistent energy throughout the day – no more 3pm energy slumps, hurray!)
3) 5 High-Vibe Breakfasts, Lunches, Snacks & Dinners for you to choose from each each day so you can make conscious choices that taste amazing and are oh, so pleasurable. The weight will melt away as you savour deliciousness! (You’ll LOVE how I organised this for you!)
4) How to Elegantly Eat Non-High Vibe Foods (I’ll give you 3 words you can say to all of your food so that your body loves it and uses it for only good.)
5) Daily Elegant Reminders for Your Soul. For 6 weeks you will receive a daily message that will inspire & remind you of the Elegant Principles for attaining your Best Body. It’s like having me pop in to give you a hug, smile and little nugget of wisdom for 42 days straight (Oui, even on the weekends)
6) BONUS! My secret to making your daily movements 10X more effective. Whoo hoo! (It’s a manifesting secret)
7) Pre-Order BONUS! If you order before the product actually launches in May you will receive a VIP Ticket to an Online Soiree with me where I will answer any question you have regarding the elegant principles to attaining & maintaining your best body!
If you desire a body you love, total health & vitality and a lifestyle that brings you Inner Peace & JOY then there really is only one thing to do…
Click HERE and begin the Elegant Journey back to the best YOU. “See” you in the program!
So, now you know why my year in France is a year that I will never forget and will always hold so dear to my heart.
In 1997 I left Canada a broken, insecure, unfulfilled person and in 1998 I returned a peaceful, confident, and spiritual woman.
It is my greatest honour to pass along some of the wisdom I gained. The life lessons I learned that year have served me every day since then.
I’ve had ups and I’ve had downs, but whenever I come back to these lessons, I feel peaceful, aligned, and confident in who I am and why I’m here.
Are you ready to learn them?
Okay!
Here are 5 of the Top Life Lessons I learned in France:
(Psst…for full explanations of the lessons, watch the video above)
How to live a life filled with Peace, Pleasure, Prosperity, JOY and Beauty.
How to connect with one’s own Divine Nature and how to allow that essence to be so fully YOU that you GLOW and touch other people’s lives with that glow. Shortly after returning from France I was walking in a Health Food Store and a woman stopped abruptly in front of me and said loudly, “WHOAH! YOU ARE GLOWING! You are actually GLOWING!” I just smile when I hear this now because I know it’s not me they’re seeing and feeling, it’s the Divine/Source Energy. This was a wish I had while living in France. I wanted to GLOW like the Buddhist Masters did. And, voila! With time and doing my special daily practise (the one you can find inThe 6 Phase Visioning Meditation) I was able to fulfil my wish! And it just keeps getting stronger and stronger as I practise.
How to LIVE your spirituality, not just talk or read about it.
How to know and LOVE yourself intimately, so you never compare yourself with others again.
How to know what your soul desires and how to elegantly manifest it.
Again, these are just SOME of the gorgeous life lessons that France gifted me. The beautiful thing is that much of what I learned has deepened even more since then.
For one, my connection and alignment with Source is something that has deepened to such a level that I consistently receive Divine Downloads for myself and the people I mentor.
I giggle every time I receive an email or comment during a session like this,
“Oh my God, are you psychic? It’s like you know me perfectly and we’ve only just met!
or
“Oh my God, are you psychic? I asked to hear these exact words as a sign today!”
Please know that if you have found your way here, it’s not an accident. It shows you are ready to receive all of the Elegant Processes and wisdom that I have been guided to share.
If you weren’t ready to receive it you wouldn’t have been guided here. So congratulations for being ready!!!
It is my wish and intention, that today is the beginning of your OWN personal pilgrimage. One that takes you on a beautiful journey back HOME, to your Divine Nature – the place where Inner Peace, JOY, Abundance and Beauty resides.
Living from this space allows you to live in Elegant Flow where everything you desire (or something even better) flows elegantly to you, without hard work or huge effort.
So, let’s get this journey started, shall we?
Each week I will be sharing wisdom with you on how to be a Spiritual Woman who lives The Elegant Life, so make sure you put a note in your calendar to come back here every Wednesday.
Also, I LOVE connecting with you by reading and responding to your comments and questions, so please do write to me in the comments, okay?
Since I will only be posting once a week now, I invite you to follow me on YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram for even more inspiration and wisdom.
See you next week!
Love,
Erin
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