I cannot tell you how many of my clients are dealing with relationship issues. In fact just after I finished filming this video series a woman contacted me who was desiring coaching on how to attract the perfect partner!
It has been such a theme within the past 3 years that I thought, since we’re in the month of “LOVE” that I do a thorough video series on How to Elegantly Attract or Have a Fulfilling Relationship. I cover everythign from A-Z so get ready to ENJOY!
ANNOUNCEMENT! You’ve probably noticed that I have been absent for the past couple of weeks. I had a tremendously busy January and eventually got ill. During this time I realised that some things needed to change so that I could FULLY fulfill my Life Calling without burning out.
And, what needed to change was this blog. Many of you may not know that every blog post takes about 2 1/2 days to complete. With the filming, editing, uploading, writing, organising, creating of images etc. it’s a full time job.
With me coaching clients here in Dubai as well as all over the world my schedule is packed. Not to mention the LIVE workshops I do every month as well as being a very present mommy to my two children. Get the picture? It was getting to be too much.
During the past weeks, I have added even more support to my life – a chef that specialises in high vibration food which looks beautiful – he garnishes with flowers!!!! Totally in line with the Elegant Approach to living & eating!
I have also reflected on which aspects of the blog I adore most – the tasks that give me joy and pleasure and those that leave me dragging my feet each week.
Changes to the Blog From Now Onwards
So, the short of the story is that I will be filming more videos (something I adore doing) but I will not be writing a full blog post to match. I will write a little introduction/ blurb and point out important points but the full on written portion of the blog will no longer be present.
I know some of you really love to read, but I simply cannot fulfil that need anymore without burning out. I hope you understand and begin to enjoy watching the videos as much as you enjoyed reading the posts. Who knows, perhaps it will aid you in creating a special moment each week to slow down and make watching the video a beautiful ritual for yourself!
Perhaps you could make a lovely tea and serve it in a beautiful tea cup while enjoying the video! Let me know your comments or ideas, okay?
So without further ado, enjoy PART 1 of this Relationship series.
Prosperity, Abundance, Desires Coming true…where are you currently with all of this?
Are you waiting for your desires to appear? Do you feel frustrated? Are you feeling a bit depressed? How about overwhelmed at trying to figure out the “HOW”?
I can relate to all of these. At different stages of my life I would feel hopeful and excited and then depressed and even angry that “The Universe” wasn’t delivering me what I was asking for. Plus, I consistently focused my energy on trying to figure out HOW to make my desires come true. WRONG thing to do!
My intention with this week’s post is to let you know, trust and BELIEVE that the Universe has magical abilities to make your dreams and desires come true…you simply need to know how the Universe works and put those principles into practice…without focusing on the “How” of making your dreams become a reality. Ready?
You could have a desire about attracting more prosperity into your life, attaining (and maintaining) your ideal body, attracting a perfect partner into your life or getting a dream job somewhere and I’d give you the EXACT same advice, based on my experience of manifesting every single one of these ….and more!
Let me start off by saying this…
The only reason I share my story with you is so you know that if a teacher from Canada can manifest all of her desires, so can you. My story is meant to inspire and offer guidance on how I learned to manifest my soul’s desires, after suffering in desperation and deprivation most of my life.
How the Magic of the Universe Can Bring Your Desires to You
We just recently moved into a dream apartment in the neighbourhood of our dreams. Here is how it all played out and how easy and elegant the magic of the Universe can work in your favour.
When I was a school teacher in Canada there was one particular Spring Break that really stood out in my mind. The Spring Break when all my students seemed to be going to far away places to explore the world…and I couldn’t.
Money wasn’t available for me to do this and I felt a bit depressed about it.
When all the students arrived back from their travels they shared with me all of their adventures and although I was excited to hear about them, it made it even more “in my face” that I still was not at a point in my life where I could afford a luxury trip like they had all just experienced.
One boy came up to my desk and showed me pictures of his travels to Dubai as well as the Atlantis Hotel he stayed at.
WOW! It looked stunning. My heart flipped just looking at the photos. He swam with the dolphins (one of my life long dreams) and had loads of fun with his father in the waterpark and aquarium.
I sat there just stunned that some people were able to experience life this way. I SO wanted this for myself, but the next thought was,
“Pff…how in the world would I ever be able to experience that? Some experiences are just for the wealthy I guess.”
Years passed and I did everything imaginable to try and bring prosperity into my life. Little by little more prosperity came, but not as much as my soul knew it desired. It wanted to experience life FULLY, and more prosperity was needed to do that.
Fast forward 9 years and we managed to elegantly manifest a move to Dubai (Click HERE to read that beautiful story!)
We settled into a villa but soon realised that The Marina area was the area that would suit us better. We adore having everything at our doorstep and being able to go out to dinner or breakfast and walk home leisurely.
So, we did what we know to do, what I teach all of my clients and what is taught in The Art of Living Elegantly
First
We began going to The Marina each week and looked at different apartment buildings.
We found the perfect one! Amazing floor to ceiling views, quality finishings, huge balcony…done!
The only issue was that we could only move at the end of April and it was October!
Second
We created a life vision for Dubai. In very specific detail we discussed and wrote down exactly how we wanted our life to look and feel.
Third
We continued living “Elegantly” and did the Elegant Clearing Process™ daily on our perfect apartment and life vision.
Fourth
We awaited any inspiration to take. Time clicked on and we kept visiting the Marina and viewing properties. None matched our first choice. And NONE in our favourite building were coming available.
It would have been VERY easy to go down the panic route. The “what are we going to do?” route, but…The Art of Living Elegantly does not include this in it’s steps;)
The Magic in Action!
One day, my son’s school asked me if I’d be open to taking over a class for a bit as they knew I was a former teacher. I really didn’t want to, as I was busy enough with the growing and expanding Elegant Life Blog, but I listened and followed the guidance and said yes.
One day, near the end of my short stint, I was collecting some forms and noticed that one of the addresses of the students was the building we were going to look at later that day (and was directly next to our favourite building).
I was going to say something to her and then my ego came in and said, “Why? Just move on” But then Divine Inspiration came in and practically said the words for me…
“How funny! We’re coming to look at an apartment in your building after school today!”
What happened next is the utter MAGIC of the Divine.
This little girl said to me, “My mummy has something even better for you.”
[Slightly shocked]”Oh, really?”
“You can talk to her after school.”
“Okay!”
Well, I don’t think I even need to tell you the end of this story, do I?
Yep. She had a place in our favourite building that wasn’t even listed. It. Was. Perfect.
As I write this post I am sitting on my sofa, in Dubai, in a fricking amazing apartment, staring straight at….The Atlantis Hotel. (Come see it at minute 8:00 in the video above!)
Yes, I am still in shock I think. I can go to The Atlantis every day if I want and swim with those dolphins and experience the joy of playing in the waterparks with my kids.
I don’t even have words…
What are your dreams?
Do they seem too big?
Too impossible?
Please, please hear me when I tell you this….
If you do what I teach you, you can have, be and experience ANYTHING your soul desires.
I learned how this Universe works and it never fails me. After so many years of struggle and angst, it almost amazes me that I, Erin, am mentoring women on how to make their desires elegantly come true!
Look, I’ll get really honest here for a moment.
If what you are currently doing (or not doing) isn’t working for you…
If you don’t have the body, the health, the partner, the job, the prosperity, the clients…whatever! Then you need to do things differently.
Mentoring with me or going through The Art of Living Elegantly Program are two options, but all I ask you to do is get really specific about your life vision and then ask for Divine Inspiration as to what the next step is. Listen, Wait, or Take action on what it says, but don’t stay doing the same old things that may feel “comfortable”.
I’m telling you, life is BEAUTIFUL! It can offer you so, so much. More than you could even dream up for yourself.
And I’m not talking about life like some people do. I will never ever say, “Dream BIGGER!”, “GO HIGHER!”, or “DON”T PLAY SMALL!” because that is just ego stuff that is led by your subconscious thoughts.
It’s a sneaky way of making you think you need to do or have more to BE more, and that is NOT what The Elegant Life is about.
The Elegant Life is a beautiful way of connecting with your Divinity and allowing this connection to elegantly help you manifest and live this life to the fullest expression of your soul and it’s desires.
If you have questions about dreams, desires, or manifesting please write them in the comments below. It’s always so great to hear from you so I know what type of posts to focus on in service of you.
I spent the rest of the day playing with the kids, eating with the family and trying to figure out how I really felt and what my soul really wanted.
Sandra said she knew all along that Guy liked me. It was obvious she said.
My big worry was that I didn’t want anything to ruin our friendship and the synergy between all three of us.
Sandra was extremely supportive as she thought Guy and I had a lot in common. So, I decided to go to Guy’s house that night.
Before I went, I sat down with my diary to try and work through what my soul wanted.
Chère Diary,
Okay, a lot has happened and I really need to sort through things.
Today Guy and I went shopping at an organic store – man he is always so damn thoughtful! He knew I had been missing my soya products and specialty flours, so he surprised me and took me there.
After, we went for a LONG walk since the weather was so gorgeous. It felt incredible to be with him. It was easy and I felt so comfortable to just be ME.
There was an ease, a peace.
All I kept thinking was, “THIS is how I always want to feel in a relationship. I want to be fully accepted. To fully be able to talk about spirituality, life, organic healthy food and…”
I’m scared. So scared. But…I also feel excited. My insides are flipping!
Could this be the LOVE that my horoscope told me about?
Could Guy Be My Soulmate?
Okay, here is the kind of man I desire:
Honest
Giving
Completely devoted to me and my happiness
Spiritual like me
Dark, Thick hair
Well toned body – likes to keep in shape
Cooks
Loves life
Good sense of humour
Great lover
Someone who I feel is “IT”, no doubts
Loves art and music like me, or even more than me
Plays an instrument or sings
Enjoys nature
How does Guy size up to this list?
Man! He aligns with almost every one except #5 and #11, and I’m not sure about #10 yet;)
Well, I’m going to go and hear what Guy is feeling and thinking. Should be interesting!
Chère Diary,
Okay, Guy and I drank chai tea and talked about everything we had in common. Guy also admitted that from the very first day we met, he felt I was “IT”, “The One”.
We laughed, talked and shared how we felt and then listened to music. Suddenly, Guy took my hand. The electricity was HUGE!
We both looked at our hands then looked up at each other’s eyes… and kissed.
The electricity between us was intense….different than between Matt and I.
We were both feeling SO much emotion!
God, I felt womanly!
Suddenly, Guy stopped kissing me and without even saying a word, asked if I wanted to make love.
I was 100% in. This experience was different than anything I’d ever experienced before.
I don’t know why but the emotion I felt, the intimacy between us, was on a different level. It was spiritual.
He was saying all kinds of things in French:
Pince-moi, c’est vrai ca? he said. (Pinch me, is this real?)
Tu me conduis fou! ( You drive me crazy!)
And then… Je t’aime, Erin.(Uh-Oh… you know what THAT means!)
This scared me a bit. But, why did it feel so amazing to hear a man say that to me again? And to know that he really, REALLY meant it?
I needed to go so Guy walked me to my car. He told me he felt like he was in a dream, and I have to admit, I did too.
Wow! Did I just experience this? A romance in France? With a beautiful soul?
My God..how my life has changed, opened up, and totally become what I’ve always dreamed about.
Join me HERE where I share the continuation of this story…and it’s not what you’d expect.
I’ve met a friend!!! Oh, thank the Universe! In my language class is a 25 year old Mexican girl named Sandra. She laughs like me and we have SO MUCH in common!!!
We went out to dinner and talked for hours and hours, sharing intimate details of our lives. It’s like we’ve known each other before.
Finally, someone to share this experience with. I’ve been feeling so lonely.
My typical day is: – wake up – take the boys to school – teach – come home – meditate, do some breathing exercises, and then some yoga – write letters, do some chores – go pick the boys up, do homework with them – then play games with them – eat dinner, do dishes – read with Maelle and Jean – Do. in le salon – go to bed
It’s very low key and my French is getting much more fluid, but I don’t feel like ME. I’m bored.
Being with Sandra makes me feel like I’m ALIVE again. She’s been here longer than me so she knows a few more people.
YEAH! I cannot wait to begin living life like Erin again!
In fact, I have “Felt my fear and done it anyway” and asked to use the car so Sandra and I can drive to La Rochelle, a beautiful city near the ocean, tomorrow!
Chère Diary,
Well, we were all set to go to La Rochelle when Sandra told me a friend invited her to an art exhibit in Clisson, a nearby town, and would I like to come?
She thought I’d be excited to know that another friend is coming along who is a yoga teacher.
To be honest, I was really disappointed. I’ve never been good with plans changing at the last minute. And, why was our plan so easy to toss out?
I felt a bit of anger arise within me, but now that I’ve been reading the Dalai Lama and Deepak Chopra books I am trying to go with the flow more. There must be a reason this is happening, so I changed my attitude and said, “Okay.”
Maybe I could get some good yoga tips for my butt! It seems to be growing by the day with all the cheese and patisseries I’ve been eating!
Chère Diary,
I can’t write much right now because I’m so tired, but today was magnificent!
Sandra and I went for lunch and the yoga teacher was going to come and meet us and take us to where Sandra’s other friend was waiting.
Secretly, I wondered, “Is he going to be handsome?” I craved love and attention.
While we ate dessert, Guy, the yoga teacher walked in.
He wasn’t the dark haired French guy I was envisioning…in fact his hairline was receding, but WOW, he had incredible energy. What WAS that?
Guy sat with us and was so at ease. I liked this. Oooh, I LOVE being around people who have beautiful energy. This was going to be a fun day after all!
Sandra, Guy and I got in the car and on the journey we all chatted so effortlessly about yoga, how he teaches from his home, how he is a Buddhist (WOW! I’m reading a Dalai Lama book right now!!!), how his brother is a Buddhist monk (WOW! Maybe I can learn from him!), how he loves cooking and eating and playing the pan flutes….
I was getting a buzz out of this conversation!!!
I went from being lonely and slightly depressed to feeling ALIVE and excited and so, so curious!
Talking about spirituality, yoga and Buddhism thrilled me! And yes, with so much in common, I began feeling a slight attraction to Guy.
Somehow I feel a connection to his soul and I can’t explain why.
Guy, Sandra and I finally arrived in Clisson and it was magical…in every respect.
Join me HEREwhen I share with you the magic that occurred in Clisson, as well as some of the pictures I took on this very day!
Love,
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