So, here’s one of the TOP questions I get asked: “How do I find my Life Purpose?”
Women all over the world are feeling the inner urge for fulfillment. Life as usual just isn’t cutting it anymore.
They want to feel like they are having an
impact. Doing something they love. Experiencing a sense of fulfillment that
simply doesn’t come from working for someone or being a mother or wife.
Not that those things are bad or boring or don’t bring a certain sense of fulfillment but women are desiring MORE.
I could do a masterclass on this topic actually, which I am sensing will very soon (Let me know if this would interest you by leaving me a comment below, okay?)
But, the video I filmed this week came to me to share first. It’s the first understanding and perspective that is necessary. PLUS I lead you through a guided meditation.
So, if you are one of the many women who is
desiring more from life, this video is for you. Please share it with any woman
you know who may benefit from hearing the message, okay?
It’s Tea Time with Erin again!
A SUPER question came through so I dedicated a whole video to it!
Due to the NEW profound energy in town, I want
to show you how to master setting
intentions so that you can most effectively
allow this powerful energy to support you rather than hinder you.
Are you up for learning the way I manifest
everything in my life?
From moving to the countries I desire to live in, to finding the perfect home, to attracting the perfect friends into my life, to receiving the most ideal number of clients, etc, etc?
Okay then! Make yourself a lovely cup of tea
and let’s get started!
“Well, SHE thinks highly of herself, now doesn’t she?”
“I don’t like her. She’s SO ______.”
I could probably write a 10,000-word post just listing the countless ways we’ve judged others.
But here’s the real question: what about the judgement we place on ourselves?
Self-Judgement Is the Harshest Kind
Do any of these sound familiar?
“How could I be so stupid?”
“She’s 55 and not overweight—what’s wrong with me?”
“What I have to say doesn’t matter. Others say it better than I ever could.”
At first, judging others and judging ourselves may seem like two separate things. But in truth, they’re deeply connected. When you judge another woman, it often mirrors a hidden judgement you already carry about yourself.
And this cycle of comparison and criticism erodes our self-worth, feminine confidence, and joy.
The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck there.
The Elegant 3-Step Judgement Detox
I’ve created a simple, feminine, and very elegant 3-step practice to release judgement—whether it’s about yourself or someone else—and turn it into self-love in just seconds.
Step 1: Pause & Notice
The moment you catch yourself judging, pause. Take a breath and simply notice the thought without shaming yourself for it.
✨ Ask: “What is this really about?”
Step 2: Reflect & Redirect
Behind every judgement lies a wound, insecurity, or unmet need. Instead of letting the judgement spiral, gently redirect it with compassion.
✨ Ask: “What do I truly need right now—acceptance, love, or reassurance?”
Step 3: Replace With Self-Love
Choose a higher perspective. Speak to yourself the way you would to a dear friend. Replace the judgement with a loving truth.
Examples:
Instead of “She thinks she’s so special,” try: “I admire her confidence. I can cultivate that too.”
Instead of “I’m not good enough,” try: “My voice matters. What I offer is uniquely mine.”
Over time, this practice rewires your thoughts and strengthens your self-love, confidence, and feminine grace.
Your Invitation
Next time you catch yourself in judgement, try this Judgement Detox and see how quickly the energy shifts.
✨ Let me know in the comments what judgement you’ve struggled with—and how this practice helped you turn it into self-love.
Did you know that the frequency of JOY is even higher than LOVE?
Being in the state of JOY gives you the energy, motivation & clarity to BE, DO & ENJOY everything your Soul desires!
Think about it…
When you are in complete JOY
you:
Have more energy
Easily do movement activities
More quickly/efficiently perform tasks
Feel fulfillment
Are more care-free about things (flexible mindset)
Are more open to trying new things
Are inspired to love yourself & others – it feels natural to you
I could go on and on, but can
you see the difference in what JOY gifts you (and others)?
So, the BIG question then is HOW to ascend into this state, right?
Well, I share the Elegant HOW in this week’s video!
On Monday, January 20th, it’s my 48th birthday! So, in honour of this, I’d like to gift you a 48% off coupon code to use towards The Joy Formula that I mention in the video- YAY!
I only do this kind of SALE once a year on my birthday so be sure to take advantage!!! The coupon code is only valid until 12 Midnight EST on January 20th so act now and begin feeling JOY… today!
The Coupon code is: JOY2020 (Feel free to share this with any friends, family or even on your social media accounts!) The more the better! We want to spread JOY everywhere this year!!!
