Want to know the 6 secrets to living elegantly so you can upgrade your life to the next best level? Amazing!
In today’s video I lay out the path to living (and therefore manifesting) with elegance and confidence, so get your pen and paper ready!
The reason I adore teaching how to manifest with elegance is because I tried for YEARS to manifest and rarely did anything I desire come into my reality.
About 11 years ago, when I took a closer look at what I was doing differently when I actually did manifest a few incredible things, I recognised a few patterns. Then I tried doing those things over and over… and voilá!
I realised that I had found the secret sauce to living with ease & flow and finally manifesting every desire with faith, trust & feminine confidence.
I’ll go through all 6 ingredients, yet one of the most important things you need to be able to do is to surrender and let life guide you as to the actions to take.
I know how difficult it is to know how to “Let Go and Let God” as they say, yet in today’s video I’ll explain exactly how to do it and what to do in the meantime, while you wait for inspiration.
Please Understand This About Living Elegantly
The Art of Living Elegantly is all about intentional living. YOU must practise conscious living because your life is yours to createand no one can do it for you.
I can teach you the path and I can be your BIGGEST cheerleader, yet I can’t do it for you.
The good news is that because it’s all up to you, you can create any kind of life you want and no one can stop you! Cheers to that!
So, if you desire to feel confidence while you learn how to live in flow, how to live with more ease, and elegantly manifest your dreams, then sit back and really take this information in.
I recommend watching this video over and over again, perhaps once a week for the first while, just so you fully receive every nugget of wisdom.
Here’s to you levelling up and upgrading into Your NEW Elegant Life!
News Flash! I will not be sharing 5 self care tips that you’ve heard before.
I’m interested in sharing self care tips that will gift you consistent self love and deepen your confidence as a woman.
When we do anything over and over again, it creates patterns and beliefs in our brain.
If you’re reading this post I know you are a woman who is committed to consciously CHOOSING what you do over and over again. Right?
When we consciously choose to do things that we know are good for us we are telling our brain that we love ourselves; we love ourselves enough to do things that we know will benefit us in a positive way.
Soon, the brain will generalise this belief and make it a conviction we hold about ourself.
Self Care Tips Create Powerful Convictions
Let’s look at a self care tip and see how the conviction it creates can serve us in the rest of our life.
Making Your Bed Beautiful Every Morning.
If you consciously choose to make your bed beautiful every morning your brain, after time, will believe you value Beauty and will choose to look for it everywhere.
You may go for a walk and notice the beauty of some flowers. Those flowers will gift you such joy and pleasure that you will purchase a bouquet of flowers at the grocery store so you can enjoy fresh, beautiful flowers every day.
Now, what does this tell your brain?
I deserve to be surrounded by beauty.
That I matter.
I deserve to feel JOY.
I am abundant.
Simple things make me feel good.
Let’s take this even further. What could be possible if YOU held these convictions about yourself?
You would attract people and experiences into your life that bring you JOY because you believe you deserve joy, correct?
You would stop chasing things that people say you should want and instead truly feel happy and content with the simple things in life. The big luxuries are amazing too, but you don’t wait to feel good until they arrive.
I could go on and on, but you get the picture.
We often want to overcomplicate life, however the simple act of consciously choosing to make your bed beautiful every morning can affect your life in multiple ways.
In today’s video I share with you my top 5 Self Care Tips that will create profound ripple effects in ALL areas of your life. Trust me, I live by these and so do my most successful, happy clients.
To learn how to FULLY Embody Feminine Confidence watch my FREE MASTERCLASS HERE.
You’ve probably heard of books like, “The Miracle Morning“, “The 5 am Club“, “My Morning Routine” and more that rave about how important it is to have a morning routine.
I don’t think I need to list the benefits of having a morning routine as I know you have already heard and read so much on the topic.
What I prefer to focus on is WHAT is beneficial for a WOMAN to have in her daily morning routine.
Ahem…have you noticed that almost all of the books on this subject are written by males?
That’s not a bad thing, it’s just that what men need in order to be their best selves and what women need to be & feel like our best, most empowered selves are different.
We females need connection & alignment to:
our physical selves
family members/partner
our feminine nature & energies
the Divine
There are many ways to connect and align with these four components. Since our dynamic souls adore choice, having a selection of options to choose from delights us and makes it easy to stick to a consistent routine!
The routines suggested by men become a bit too rigid for us, so we start out excited and eventually end up letting the routine slide until it totally disappears.
Oh yes… and then we shame ourselves because we aren’t “disciplined enough”.
This is not true. We CAN stick to a routine that is feminine in nature; a routine that flows, that changes, that is guided by our Soul.
It’s not that we don’t need structure, we do! We just simply need a structure that supports our dynamic nature.
In today’s video, I share a version of my own spiritual, feminine & elegant morning routine. The basics of it remain the same, yet I always check-in, listen & adjust depending on what I hear.
So, come along with me!
Do you have a morning routine? If so, what’s your favourite part?
I cannot tell you how many of my clients are dealing with relationship issues. In fact just after I finished filming this video series a woman contacted me who was desiring coaching on how to attract the perfect partner!
It has been such a theme within the past 3 years that I thought, since we’re in the month of “LOVE” that I do a thorough video series on How to Elegantly Attract or Have a Fulfilling Relationship. I cover everythign from A-Z so get ready to ENJOY!
ANNOUNCEMENT! You’ve probably noticed that I have been absent for the past couple of weeks. I had a tremendously busy January and eventually got ill. During this time I realised that some things needed to change so that I could FULLY fulfill my Life Calling without burning out.
And, what needed to change was this blog. Many of you may not know that every blog post takes about 2 1/2 days to complete. With the filming, editing, uploading, writing, organising, creating of images etc. it’s a full time job.
With me coaching clients here in Dubai as well as all over the world my schedule is packed. Not to mention the LIVE workshops I do every month as well as being a very present mommy to my two children. Get the picture? It was getting to be too much.
During the past weeks, I have added even more support to my life – a chef that specialises in high vibration food which looks beautiful – he garnishes with flowers!!!! Totally in line with the Elegant Approach to living & eating!
I have also reflected on which aspects of the blog I adore most – the tasks that give me joy and pleasure and those that leave me dragging my feet each week.
Changes to the Blog From Now Onwards
So, the short of the story is that I will be filming more videos (something I adore doing) but I will not be writing a full blog post to match. I will write a little introduction/ blurb and point out important points but the full on written portion of the blog will no longer be present.
I know some of you really love to read, but I simply cannot fulfil that need anymore without burning out. I hope you understand and begin to enjoy watching the videos as much as you enjoyed reading the posts. Who knows, perhaps it will aid you in creating a special moment each week to slow down and make watching the video a beautiful ritual for yourself!
Perhaps you could make a lovely tea and serve it in a beautiful tea cup while enjoying the video! Let me know your comments or ideas, okay?
So without further ado, enjoy PART 1 of this Relationship series.
January is my birthday month so I gifted myself a few things I really want to share with you!
In this “January Favourites” post I will share 4 items that have truly gifted me pleasure…and made my dentist very happy with me! You’ll see why;) ENJOY! And who knows, maybe one of my January Favourites will end up being one of yours too!
I absolutely ADORE this shower oil! I have lived in a variety of countries and climates and each time tried to find a product that would give me smooth, silky, moisturised skin. Nothing really did the trick until this Almond Shower Oil.
I used to use high quality shower gels and then even higher quality (and higher priced) lotions and they worked a bit, but the next day my skin would be dry again.
This product lathers up slightly, just enough, and then, without leaving you feeling greasy, moisturises your skin.
Et voila! No need for any lotion, therefore saving you time and money!
Click HERE to easily purchase this product now. You’ll thank me, I promise:)
Petit Plaisir No. 2 – January Favourites
2. TePe Floss Sticks (found in most pharmacies)
Are you constantly told by your dentist that you need to floss better? I was too! The only problem was that I was flossing diligently everyday!
Finally, one dentist introduced me to these TePe Floss Sticks – I’ve not heard a word since about my plaque!
After brushing at night you simply insert the floss stick between each of your teeth and voila! That’s it! (You’ll be surprised at what comes out, even after you doing a brilliant job at brushing!)
Choose the width of your TePe Floss Sticks to match the space between your teeth. The orange, slim ones work best for me since I have very little space between my teeth, but if you have larger spaces, it’s best to purchase the wider ones.
TePe used to make their sticks out of wire and brushes but have now switched to these NEW, almost silicon material. I much prefer these NEW ones as I found the wire ones bent too easily and lost their shape, making each pick a one time use.
Petit Plaisir No.3 – January Favourites
3. NEOM Organic Candles – Found on Amazon, Net-a-Porter, & Neomorganics.com
J’adore NEOM Candles! I could never find a natural, non toxic candles that didn’t give me a head ache…until I found NEOM candles that is:) I actually purchased 4 of them for my birthday earlier this month and I really am so pleased with them.
The scents are labelled by how we desire to FEEL & what we desire to EXPERIENCE (in complete alignment with The Elegant Life Principles, right?)
Some of the names are: SLEEP, TRANQUILITY, HAPPINESS, DE-STRESS…
Their promise: 100% natural fragrances for the mind & body, made in Britain from ethically sourced, sustainable origins, only natural & organic ingredients, no petrochemical paraffin or mineral wax, no artificial perfume only pure essential oils and no harsh preservatives. My kind of company. Not to mention that the founder, Nicola, is a woman with a whole lot of Soul.
OYSHO is a beautiful Spanish clothing retailer specialising in women’s homewear and undergarments.
I came across them in Abu Dhabi 5 years ago when we were there on vacation. I am still wearing the nightwear and loungewear I bought as I just love them so much!
So, when I saw the OYSHO store here in Dubai I jumped at the chance to purchase more! I purchased these black satin pyjamas (to see me model them, watch the video above at minute 7:50) and three other items as I realised I had gotten back into the rut of wearing old, worn out clothes around the house, calling them my “cozies”. Can you relate?
Well, this brand is seriously the best brand around. They are high in quality, fit the body perfectly (as perfectly as any high end item would) and the prices are shockingly reasonable! I still cannot believe the price tag of these high quality items!
Have a look for a store near you. If you live in North America the only place I could find to purchase items was HERE.
Et voila! Ce sont mes petits plaisirs pour le mois de janvier. (Here’s some French for those of you who requested to hear more French from me:)
I’m very excited about February because it’s the month of LOVE – and you know we’re all about that here at The Elegant Life;) So… I have a petit surprise for you!
See you next week!
Love,
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