CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING INNER PEACE, MANIFESTING JOY, MANIFESTING PROSPERITY

The “IF I COULD JUST MAKE MY DREAMS COME TRUE” Syndrome

Have you ever thought, “If I could JUST ___________(lose this weight, find my soul mate, make 6 figures…)” then everything would be grand and you’d never have issues with anything else in life? If you could JUST?

I did!

I used to think, “If I could just win a million dollars then I could do what I want, hire who I needed, live like I wanted and everything in life would be amazing!”

How far do you think THAT thinking took me? LOL! Not very far. In fact it caused me in-credible suffering. Daily suffering!

I know you’ve heard me talk about my desperation before so I won’t go into that here, but I really feel that this week’s video needed to be made. It’s message will have your mindset shift from a very unhelpful one to an extremely empowering one!

In this video you will learn:

  • The reason you have the issue in your life that you do
  • The Law of Impermanence – understanding this is KEY to having your dreams come true
  • The #1 question to ask yourself to experience Elegant Flow instead of emotional peaks & valleys

Remember, our mind creates our emotion, our emotion creates our behaviours and our behaviours create our reality, so if you feel empowered after this video, your behaviours will immediately be different and so will your reality.

Step by step you’ll be led, guided and given exactly what you require to one day look around at your life and say, “Oh my Goodness. It’s HERE! I’m living it! How did this happen?”

Enjoy getting empowered!

P.S. Here is the link to the video series I mention in the video.

With so much love,

how to be happy
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING JOY

How to Be Happy! | An Elegant Escape to Budapest!

A few years ago I was feeling SO sorry myself. Maybe you can relate?

My husband was packing for his yearly guys getaway. He was giddy with excitement as they WhatsApp’ed each other. And me?

I was sitting on the sofa feeling a strong pressure in my chest and utter resentment that once again he was heading off on a trip while I looked after the kids.

He must have felt my energy (okay, it was pretty strong so it’d be hard to miss!), so he said, “Erin, are you mad that I’m going on this trip?”

Me: No, it’s just that here I am, once again, sitting home with the kids while you go away and have fun. It feels so unfair.

Him: I never stop you from planning your own trip. Go! I’ve never stopped you.

Me: Silence…hmmm..he had a point.

It was at that moment I realised that my resentfulness was present because I wasn’t giving myself permission to go. It was MY choice, not his. I would come up with ALL the reasons: too much to organise, clients, kids’ schedules, money…

How to Be Happy

And then I called myself out. What did my Soul really crave? Answer? Time away with my girlfriends in Provence.

I got up, emailed my friends and within a couple of months we were in Provence (See photos of us HERE having THE best time.) I hadn’t laughed that hard for I don’t know how long…you know, the one where your stomach is in pain from laughter?

A trip away with my girlfriends has became MY yearly tradition and I want to share with you the latest escapade that my friend Sandrine and I went on. Come with me to beautiful Budapest!

In this video you will learn:

  • The Epidemic facing women right now
  • How to go from resentment to relaxation – the exact words to use.
  • What the Ritz Carlton looks like inside:)

With so much love,

judging people
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING INNER PEACE, MANIFESTING JOY

How to Elegantly Stop Judging People AND Yourself

Have you ever felt judged by someone?

Perhaps you said something to your partner and they got really upset with you and you were completely taken aback because you totally didn’t mean it the way they took it?

Or, has someone ever told you that you just don’t have what it takes to _________. (You fill in the blank)

Or, that you are “short”, “overweight”, “stupid”, “shy”, “overbearing”…?

Judgement hurts. It can make us feel misunderstood, less than, embarrassed, angry, guilty and ashamed.

So…here’s a question for you, if feeling judged causes such hurt, why do we continue judging people ourselves?

And! Here’s the even bigger question, why do we continue judging OURSELVES?

In this week’s video I break judgement down and gift you a beautiful, loving & very simple way to stop judging people as well as yourself.

In this video you will learn:

  • When you are being judged, how to think about it so it can be a positive experience for everyone
  • EXACTLY what to do (and say) if you have been judged by others or by yourself
  • What it really means when you are judging people and yourself.

With SO much love,