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CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING INNER PEACE

ELEGANT COMMUNICATION: How to Get People to Hear What You Want Them to Hear

Ahhhhh…communication. Have you ever needed to speak to someone about something really important and almost as soon as the conversation began you both started yelling?

Yeah, me too.

Pre – 2011 (aka my profound Spiritual Awakening Experience) I used to build up my anger inside until I just blew. I felt like the same patterns kept repeating themselves and I would just become “DONE!” with him. He’d do something related to what was angering me and I’d just let him have it.

My common phrases to him were:

“You’re not listening!”

“How many times have I told you this?”

To which he would feel completely attacked and then lash out at me with a comment that deeply hurt and VOILA! Communication gone very wrong.

In this week’s video, I share exactly what we did to get out of this communication disaster and how we elegantly communicate now so that we really HEAR what the other wants and needs us to hear.

In this video you will learn:

  • The Science behind what is actually occurring during communication
  • The #1 myth about communication – this could be very controversial!
  • What to do when your communication isn’t working, so the person actually HEARS what you want them to.

 

With so much love,

erin

ekurt
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING INNER PEACE, MANIFESTING JOY

5 Steps to More Elegance & Elegant Flow in Your Life

Last night I was reading some of my old journals in bed. I like doing this from time to time just to remind myself how far I’ve come on my journey. Do you ever do this? It gives me such gratitude for where I am now in my life.

I kept saying to my husband, “Wow, listen to this!” and “My goodness, listen to the desperation! No wonder I wasn’t getting anywhere at that time!”

And the thing was… I had a library FULL of spiritual & personal growth books. I had worked with healers, meditated etc. but a main core of inner peace, joy and flow..ahem.. and abundance was still not my reality!

It can be SO frustrating for us Spiritual women when we feel like we’re doing everything right and yet life feels stuck and joyless.

The issue? Focusing on all that is NOT working. I spent all my time trying to improve myself or my business or my circumstances that I lost touch with the essence of how to truly feel elegance and experience elegant flow in life.

NOW I know, thank goodness. I was gifted this knowledge & more during my moment of Spiritual Awakening 7 years ago. And I’d love to share it with you in this week’s video.

In this video you will learn:

  • 5 ways to greatly increase flow & elegance in your life
  • Specific examples for each step
  • Why these 5 areas are the KEY to experiencing more elegance and flow

With so much love,

ekurt
how to be happy
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING JOY

How to Be Happy! | An Elegant Escape to Budapest!

A few years ago I was feeling SO sorry myself. Maybe you can relate?

My husband was packing for his yearly guys getaway. He was giddy with excitement as they WhatsApp’ed each other. And me?

I was sitting on the sofa feeling a strong pressure in my chest and utter resentment that once again he was heading off on a trip while I looked after the kids.

He must have felt my energy (okay, it was pretty strong so it’d be hard to miss!), so he said, “Erin, are you mad that I’m going on this trip?”

Me: No, it’s just that here I am, once again, sitting home with the kids while you go away and have fun. It feels so unfair.

Him: I never stop you from planning your own trip. Go! I’ve never stopped you.

Me: Silence…hmmm..he had a point.

It was at that moment I realised that my resentfulness was present because I wasn’t giving myself permission to go. It was MY choice, not his. I would come up with ALL the reasons: too much to organise, clients, kids’ schedules, money…

How to Be Happy

And then I called myself out. What did my Soul really crave? Answer? Time away with my girlfriends in Provence.

I got up, emailed my friends and within a couple of months we were in Provence (See photos of us HERE having THE best time.) I hadn’t laughed that hard for I don’t know how long…you know, the one where your stomach is in pain from laughter?

A trip away with my girlfriends has became MY yearly tradition and I want to share with you the latest escapade that my friend Sandrine and I went on. Come with me to beautiful Budapest!

In this video you will learn:

  • The Epidemic facing women right now
  • How to go from resentment to relaxation – the exact words to use.
  • What the Ritz Carlton looks like inside:)

With so much love,

ekurt
summer holidays
CategoriesELEGANT TRAVEL, MANIFESTING JOY, MANIFESTING PROSPERITY

SUMMER HOLIDAYS, An Elegant Assignment For YOU & A Very Important Question!

Whoo Hoo! The summer holidays are here! Well, I have a few more days until we board the airplane but I’m feeling the excitement already!

I’m going to make this really short and sweet as I have a lot of loose ends to tie up before leaving. Can you relate? Life gets super busy just before a holiday!

In this week’s Summer Holidays video:

  1. I share my blissful summer holiday plans – I’m checking a MAJOR thing off my bucket list!
  2. I give you a truly life transforming Elegant Assignment to do over the summer holidays.
  3. I ask you an extremely important question.

I’ll be back in September, however if you’d like to follow my summer holidays escapades please follow me on Instagram or Facebook!

The Manifesting video mentioned:

  1. HOW THE DIVINE CAN ELEGANTLY MANIFEST THINGS FOR YOU (Our Turkey Summer House Story!)
    https://theelegantlife.com/elegantly-manifest/

What are YOU up to this summer? Travelling anywhere intriguing or new for you? Visiting friends or relatives? Have a favourite destination I definitely need to visit in this lifetime? Please share!

Until September,

ekurt
overcoming challenges
CategoriesMANIFESTING CONFIDENCE, MANIFESTING INNER PEACE, MANIFESTING JOY, MANIFESTING PROSPERITY

Overcoming Challenges…How to Overcome Obstacles in Life With More Ease

Have you been experiencing more struggles or obstacles in life lately?

If you’ve been feeling out of sorts, confused, bored, more tired than usual you are like so many women right now…around the world.

Often we as Spiritual women have the belief that if we are truly living a Spiritual Life  everything will always  go smoothly for us…and it can…with a certain understanding.

In this week’s video I speak all about overcoming challenges and obstacles in life…the Elegant Way, of course:)

In this week’s video on overcoming challenges you will learn:

  •  3 steps to get into Elegant Flow and allow your desires or challenges to unfold with more ease
  • the #1 mistake most Spiritual women make after setting an intention
  • what you require to do right now to empower yourself

Enjoy the video and please share it! It truly helps spread The Elegant Life’s message so that even more women begin living and manifesting exquisite lives for themselves.

See you next week for a long overdue Favourites video!

Love,

 

ekurt